Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?
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Not lookin good for men these days as the rift between them and women are only growing.
Obviously this a generalization but so much bitterness and actual disdain for women’s rights in America and elsewhere is growing this situation.
Dating isn’t hard, just treat the other like a human being and showing up for that.
Obviously this a generalization but so much bitterness and actual disdain for women’s rights in America and elsewhere is growing this situation.
Dating isn’t hard, just treat the other like a human being and showing up for that.
Because the problem is not dating. The problem is meeting people. This, could be an issue since people are more and more solitary and avoid space that are not safe.
So meeting people can be a challenge. Dating, as the act for having a date and creating a relationship out of that, is not hard at all as long as we are all respectfull and compatible.
So meeting people can be a challenge. Dating, as the act for having a date and creating a relationship out of that, is not hard at all as long as we are all respectfull and compatible.
So, why should you go into random settings to meet someone you like when there's serious risk when you can just go to dating apps where people explicitly consent romantic interest?
And guess what? majority in dating are Males. infact 80:20 sex ratio
Despite the paywall of many dating apps,
Most Men still have no success
And guess what? majority in dating are Males. infact 80:20 sex ratio
Despite the paywall of many dating apps,
Most Men still have no success
That's because of two reasons :
1. Dating apps are not made to make you meet someone, but to capitalize on the loneliness felt by people.
2. Dating app do not understand how relationship are created in the first place.
I already explained how there are 4 parameters that influence the attraction here: >>
Dating app, only use the common lens to create attraction. In other word dating apps are creating an artificial competition where people without money, tall and good looking have LARGELY less chances than others and LARGELY less chances than they would have in reality
And since there are no relation existing, a date with someone from a dating app, with often fall flat.
In other words, the problem is not dating. In dating, everyone has a lot of chances to succceed a date as long as there is respect and compatibility in a normal setting.
The problem is the system that pulls people appart.
And this, I agree, is a problem. Dating apps combined to women being afraid for their lives, lives very few places to meet new people and therefore.. date.
So we must change these systems if you want to meet more people.
1. Dating apps are not made to make you meet someone, but to capitalize on the loneliness felt by people.
2. Dating app do not understand how relationship are created in the first place.
I already explained how there are 4 parameters that influence the attraction here: >>
Dating app, only use the common lens to create attraction. In other word dating apps are creating an artificial competition where people without money, tall and good looking have LARGELY less chances than others and LARGELY less chances than they would have in reality
And since there are no relation existing, a date with someone from a dating app, with often fall flat.
In other words, the problem is not dating. In dating, everyone has a lot of chances to succceed a date as long as there is respect and compatibility in a normal setting.
The problem is the system that pulls people appart.
And this, I agree, is a problem. Dating apps combined to women being afraid for their lives, lives very few places to meet new people and therefore.. date.
So we must change these systems if you want to meet more people.
That perspective is what makes it easy to be lumped in with the other disenchanted males, thus appearing undesirable.
My partner told me something simple and it validates your point and mine too regarding dating apps. That it’s easy for her and women to choose as the ratio is way off.
But there’s a LOT of bs messages sent to women on these apps.
It’s actually easy to stand out from a huge percentage by being genuine and putting effort in being conversational and showing why you are an interesting person
My partner told me something simple and it validates your point and mine too regarding dating apps. That it’s easy for her and women to choose as the ratio is way off.
But there’s a LOT of bs messages sent to women on these apps.
It’s actually easy to stand out from a huge percentage by being genuine and putting effort in being conversational and showing why you are an interesting person
So What is your solution?
Dating apps is here to say.
It's making Billions
So You need to put serious efforts but only if she match with you/swipe right first, so no chance of her knowing you and exploring your *authenticity* in convos
Even if she did swipe right,You might genuinely try your best in few first times, and then you get ghosting and disappeareance so it's gonna be exhausting for yourself.
So you eventually gonna be copy paste mode once you attempt for 10-15 times
Then you max out of your options, then you need pay more and more to get the more access and thus results in you putting a lot of money as well
Dating apps is here to say.
It's making Billions
So You need to put serious efforts but only if she match with you/swipe right first, so no chance of her knowing you and exploring your *authenticity* in convos
Even if she did swipe right,You might genuinely try your best in few first times, and then you get ghosting and disappeareance so it's gonna be exhausting for yourself.
So you eventually gonna be copy paste mode once you attempt for 10-15 times
Then you max out of your options, then you need pay more and more to get the more access and thus results in you putting a lot of money as well
Organize evening parties with people, since we are a little bit geek, go check in your city if there are groups of games players or One Piece fans. Have a drink in a bar and invite people to your table. Make new friends, the more you have, the likelier you will be to meet someone interesting. Etc.
There are plenty of solutions. You will have to make some effort and be a little bit creative, but it's worth it.
Or, you try to focus fully on the interests within a profil in a dating app because the more you will have to share, the better it will be.
There are plenty of solutions. You will have to make some effort and be a little bit creative, but it's worth it.
Or, you try to focus fully on the interests within a profil in a dating app because the more you will have to share, the better it will be.
Yup
I'm saying. Relationship require efforts, which is something normal and you need to be willing to make them if you want them.
And
That while meeting people can be tricky, dating people is ok as long as you are respectfull and find some compatibility. Do not try to date someone you have nothing in common with for example, try people with common interest like One Piece for example.
Yup, and I even saw couple form in front of me.
Go check if there is not a bar who do some tabletop games like werewolf or things like that. You will meet new people in a fun way.
I'm saying. Relationship require efforts, which is something normal and you need to be willing to make them if you want them.
And
That while meeting people can be tricky, dating people is ok as long as you are respectfull and find some compatibility. Do not try to date someone you have nothing in common with for example, try people with common interest like One Piece for example.
Yup, and I even saw couple form in front of me.
Go check if there is not a bar who do some tabletop games like werewolf or things like that. You will meet new people in a fun way.
Physical attraction being 30% of seduction at the beginning is kinda not low at all btw. It’s a solid number imo. As strong as the Nouveau Front Populaire.
I wonder how these stats work because often young people aren’t very interested in talking to someone that doesn’t fulfil this 30%, right ? Maybe it is supposed to be at 100% everywhere which means that the 30% have to be met ? What do you say @Logiko ? Or do you only need the 50% bar to get in a good relationship ?
Imagine dating an admiral fan
I wonder how these stats work because often young people aren’t very interested in talking to someone that doesn’t fulfil this 30%, right ? Maybe it is supposed to be at 100% everywhere which means that the 30% have to be met ? What do you say @Logiko ? Or do you only need the 50% bar to get in a good relationship ?
Imagine dating an admiral fan
Of course, you can't completely get rid of physical attraction, but for some, it can be liberating to know that, 30% is not even the major things that will play in the first attraction..
If you want more info. Go check this video of Psykocouac, I get the information based on this analysis of the studies.
In reality you don't have to be good looking if you check all the others boxes. And that's kind of logical when you look around. Myself am not the best looking guy and I have dated women that were magnificient.
If the feeling is there, all you need is respect and common interests.
As long as it is Fujitora or at worst Kizaru, I'm fine with that.
If you want more info. Go check this video of Psykocouac, I get the information based on this analysis of the studies.
In reality you don't have to be good looking if you check all the others boxes. And that's kind of logical when you look around. Myself am not the best looking guy and I have dated women that were magnificient.
If the feeling is there, all you need is respect and common interests.
Imagine dating an admiral fan
Physical attraction being 30% of seduction at the beginning is kinda not low at all btw. It’s a solid number imo. As strong as the Nouveau Front Populaire.
I wonder how these stats work because often young people aren’t very interested in talking to someone that doesn’t fulfil this 30%, right ? Maybe it is supposed to be at 100% everywhere which means that the 30% have to be met ? What do you say @Logiko ? Or do you only need the 50% bar to get in a good relationship ?
Imagine dating an admiral fan
I wonder how these stats work because often young people aren’t very interested in talking to someone that doesn’t fulfil this 30%, right ? Maybe it is supposed to be at 100% everywhere which means that the 30% have to be met ? What do you say @Logiko ? Or do you only need the 50% bar to get in a good relationship ?
Imagine dating an admiral fan
Example:me
You'd think a large chunk of Gen Zers would have already tried to take this advice to heart and were constantly let down by the lack of results...which is primarily the reason why the whole sigma, redpill, and all that brainrot content started spreading like wildfire back in the late 2010s in the US.
Best way to cut down content like the above from popping up is for the government to treat relationships & marriage as something worthy to pursue instead of something that can be opted out on a whim.
Why live, when you can't even have the opportunity to see your children and even your grandchildren grow up in the future?
Best way to cut down content like the above from popping up is for the government to treat relationships & marriage as something worthy to pursue instead of something that can be opted out on a whim.
Why live, when you can't even have the opportunity to see your children and even your grandchildren grow up in the future?
Sheesh, a lot of comments in this thread fits the stereotype of forum weeb who is disenchanted about dating.
Just work on yourself. The same reason why you see someone attractive looks or otherwise, you gotta deliver that aspect too. If you’re negative and insecure and over thinking and comparing yourself to others with that mindset no wonder dating is hard.
Just work on yourself. The same reason why you see someone attractive looks or otherwise, you gotta deliver that aspect too. If you’re negative and insecure and over thinking and comparing yourself to others with that mindset no wonder dating is hard.