I dont agree on the Sanji part
People asked for 20 years "but what if sanji MUST defeat a woman, what if he was FORCED To" and Oda litterarly answered that in the queen fight, even if he had no memories if he actually would hit woman he would kill himself, and if he unable to (because he thought he was not in control of his mind) he would ask his buddy zoro to kil himself.
Sanji has no woman phobia, its a code that he will not break, its part of his Kishido, like it or not
What is a "self-induced" Nerf is using his hands, however. He thinks a cook needs his hands and should never injure them. Thats an actual selfish reason we alread see partly circumvent in the wanze fight, for example
I can see oda saving this for this final fight or a special occasion