Way to misinterpret everything, whether or not you're disingenuous I don't want you misleading others so I'll explain.
Testosterone decreasing is a real problem as testosterone is linked to our motivation, risk taking, competitiveness, muscle mass and sex drive, having low T creates many problems
People can say, do or be however they want, it's their choice or is it? Do they even know there is an alternative to these feminine behaviors most men engage in today?
Many are raised in single mother households with no father or a weak father or a step dad as in your case, this produces boys who grow up with feminine traits and they are not happy, which explains the depression and suicide rates in men today, we've lost touch with what it means to be a man and it's in our own best interest to recognize that, end of story