yes, when you make life not a competition to survive you have no winners or loosers
I will give you a real example from my experience: an immigrant man reaches his new country. Barely speaks the language and is living in poverty with no support group. After clinic exam he shows clear symptoms of depression yet rejects any help because he doesn't have the time to be depressed.
So, let's see, some quick questions:
-What is the competition here and what the prize.
-What "winning" and "losing" consists of here; when will this man win or lose and what are the consequences of both.
-To what extent this man is "strong" for not giving up on working to the point of ignoring his mental health, and whether he'd be weak if he stopped to acknowledge it and get help.
You know, real people aren't the caricature of leftists you probably have in mind.