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@Rottkins have you seen or read Jojo's Bizarre Adventure? I think you would REALLY enjoy that series tbh! Especially with its more effeminate/androgynous characters later on and its just very flamboyant, wild/crazy/insane/wacky etc, stylish and especially in the anime, vibrant, loud, chaotic etc vibes, aesthetics and such!
I feel it would suit your tastes so naturally!
Some great examples of what to expect if you've not seen/read it: