No. My point is a man and woman need to acknowledge that the intercourse they are about to have can lead to a baby despite the precautions they are taking, then be satisfied with that risk, and only then proceed to sex.
Again, sex can be fun and we have a biological need built into us for it. But It's main purpose was to procreate. If a man and woman can't handle that there is 1%, 3% or 5% chance that this next 1 hour can lead to a baby, they shouldn’t be having sex in the first place.
It depends a lot on the values ultimately. Western people (and other asian countries I don't speak for) consider sex to be a lot more trivial than we do (at least used to, a lot has changed in BD over the last 30-40 years). And because we don't/didn’t used to think of sex as trivial, people didn’t get shocked when they became pregnant. That is not to say that unhealthy abortion practices didn’t exist in my country. Men have done horrible things to women to get them to abort.
Finally, I am not going to tell anyone anything. I am outlining my view. I am not the kind of guy to try and enforce my views on to others. I state what I want to state and debate what I want to.
I am well aware of where the world is heading towards and I know my values will slowly disappear.