Bro, not that it’s ever gonna fucking happen cause I doubt dua lipa is gonna come up to me and give herself to me, but I don’t think you understand what cheating means. Just for the record I’m not into open relationships or any of that polyamorous shit. But just the fact that you think you can make that judgement when other people have that sort of arrangements is baffling to me. It’s definitely not for me, but why tf would you care if it’s consensual from both parties?
It's sort of morally fucked, no offense, but at that point she ain't nothing more than a prostitute if you ask me.
All this about loving you and what not.. But she'll openly let you go wild on another woman that you probably don't have the same chemistry with?
Paying all that for groceries, housing, etc. for eachother, but she won't really care if you go off with other people for a while?
That's weird man. You gotta admit it.
I hate to be that guy, the one who acts all high and mighty and what not, but I really don't see the point of getting in a relationship with someone and marrying them only to go and try to fuck another woman, just because she's beautiful..
If it were up to me, I don't care if I saw the most banging chick on earth, with the most exquisite music taste, and the best food, the whole shebang. If I married another woman before her, and happen to like that woman enough to not want a divorce, then I think I'd rather stay with her and be loyal than to go off with the other woman and break her heart.
It's about commitment, man. I can't read minds, so I'm not sure if you regret marrying her or love the fact that you chose to marry her, but even if you see a 10/10 absolute goddess just happen to pass you by, you should stay by her side until the end of your lives.
I guess I have a different concept of marriage and loyalty than others, though, which is fine.
Can't expect everyone to see the world the way I do. Everyone has their own opinions.
 
Oh -- I don't think you understand. I don't particularly care about the cheat. I care for the one who gets cheated on. I also think the fact that someone would immediately jump at an opportunity speaks poorly of their character, and their supposed undying love for their partner.
If there is consent there is no cheating.
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It's sort of morally fucked, no offense, but at that point she ain't nothing more than a prostitute if you ask me.
All this about loving you and what not.. But she'll openly let you go wild on another woman that you probably don't have the same chemistry with?
Paying all that for groceries, housing, etc. for eachother, but she won't really care if you go off with other people for a while?
That's weird man. You gotta admit it.
I hate to be that guy, the one who acts all high and mighty and what not, but I really don't see the point of getting in a relationship with someone and marrying them only to go and try to fuck another woman, just because she's beautiful..
If it were up to me, I don't care if I saw the most banging chick on earth, with the most exquisite music taste, and the best food, the whole shebang. If I married another woman before her, and happen to like that woman enough to not want a divorce, then I think I'd rather stay with her and be loyal than to go off with the other woman and break her heart.
It's about commitment, man. I can't read minds, so I'm not sure if you regret marrying her or love the fact that you chose to marry her, but even if you see a 10/10 absolute goddess just happen to pass you by, you should stay by her side until the end of your lives.
I guess I have a different concept of marriage and loyalty than others, though, which is fine.
Can't expect everyone to see the world the way I do. Everyone has their own opinions.
Regret? Bro, it’s not that serious, I’m just simping for dua lipa just like my wife does for Robert Pattinson. I dont know if you know this but dua lipa isn’t gonna fuck me. So no free pass will ever come to be.
 
If there is consent there is no cheating.
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Regret? Bro, it’s not that serious, I’m just simping for dua lipa just like my wife does for Robert Pattinson. I dont know if you know this but dua lipa isn’t gonna fuck me. So no free pass will ever come to be.
Which is why you still mentioned a free pass and said you'd do it if you got said pass
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This conversation is disgusting, but I'm going to keep my calm, not going to lose a friend over something as idiotic as a debate about infidelity being wrong.
 
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Pretty funny the married person has a more rational, realistic take on relationships. As if it comes from experience or something.

You guys still live in the true love, Disney fantasy and show real inexperience with relationships and women.

That kind of mentality is why a lot of men, an overwhelming amount tend to be "romantically impaired" or perpetually single.
 
Pretty funny the married person has a more rational, realistic take on relationships. As if it comes from experience or something.

You guys still live in the true love, Disney fantasy and show real inexperience with relationships and women.

That kind of mentality is why a lot of men, an overwhelming amount tend to be "romantically impaired" or perpetually single.
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If I give my opinion on this post
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Pretty funny the married person has a more rational, realistic take on relationships. As if it comes from experience or something.

You guys still live in the true love, Disney fantasy and show real inexperience with relationships and women.

That kind of mentality is why a lot of men, an overwhelming amount tend to be "romantically impaired" or perpetually single.
i mean, I think we can all agree cheating is wrong. In fact, I don’t want to be other women, I’m half meming when I talk about dua lipa. It’s all about mutual respect. You talk it out and come to an agreement. Open relationships are definitely not for me, but I can’t judge others if they decide to go down that route.
 
There shouldn’t be anything to worry about if you both love eachother and are loyal. Then again, I suppose the definition of true love varies from person to person…

Not everyone thinks the same way, but what I’ve just said is the way I think. If both sides agree to an open relationship, then whatever. It’s their lives to live.

Good grief. Random arguments like these that get started out of nowhere on a One Piece forum are annoying. :kobeha:
 
In fact, I don’t want to be other women, I’m half meming when I talk about dua lipa.
I'm trying to be respectful, and to also not anger Ghostly (he has a rather short fuse, as bad as that may sound, but it's sadly kind of true, and I wouldn't want to light it) so there's no controversy or arguments here, but it's kind of hard to take any of this seriously when you switch up your opinions/arguments on the fly and someone actually says you have more rational takes on relationships when you've basically been saying you'd temporarily ditch your wife for a random singer that seems to already be taken.
 
There shouldn’t be anything to worry about if you both love eachother and are loyal. Then again, I suppose the definition of true love varies from person to person…

Not everyone thinks the same way, but what I’ve just said is the way I think. If both sides agree to an open relationship, then whatever. It’s their lives to live.

Good grief. Random arguments like these that get started out of nowhere on a One Piece forum are annoying. :kobeha:
It’s just because I said dua lipa is top tier.
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I'm trying to be respectful, and to also not anger Ghostly (he has a rather short fuse, as bad as that may sound, but it's sadly kind of true, and I wouldn't want to light it) so there's no controversy or arguments here, but it's kind of hard to take any of this seriously when you switch up your opinions/arguments on the fly and someone actually says you have more rational takes on relationships when you've basically been saying you'd temporarily ditch your wife for a random singer that seems to already be taken.
I haven’t changed my opinion bro, I never said anything of the sort. I’m not asking for an actual free pass, I’m half meming. Just let it go.
 
There shouldn’t be anything to worry about if you both love eachother and are loyal. Then again, I suppose the definition of true love varies from person to person…

Not everyone thinks the same way, but what I’ve just said is the way I think. If both sides agree to an open relationship, then whatever. It’s their lives to live.

Good grief. Random arguments like these that get started out of nowhere on a One Piece forum are annoying. :kobeha:
I agree, but it kind of made me want to wretch how he casually talked about free passes to smash a random girl he has no chemistry with when he has a wife and what not.
I mean, I may not fully understand romance, but that seemed a little fucked.
But I'd rather not speak on it because right now I feel like I'm going to get gangbanged by two very good friends, so I'll stop before this turns for the worst.
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I haven’t changed my opinion bro, I never said anything of the sort. I’m not asking for an actual free pass, I’m half meming. Just let it go.
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i mean, I think we can all agree cheating is wrong. In fact, I don’t want to be other women, I’m half meming when I talk about dua lipa. It’s all about mutual respect. You talk it out and come to an agreement. Open relationships are definitely not for me, but I can’t judge others if they decide to go down that route.
It's only cheating if you go behind your partners back, if you betray them etc. That's how I see it anyway.
If someone genuinely loves you, they won't try to restrain, shame, judge you and if you love them too, then they will know you will always return to them even if you stray/wander/lose your way.

Aye exactly too man, well said. Good relationships NEED honesty/transfer and communication with each other. That's why mine failed too.

Plus there's swinging and open relationships as you said ofc.

We're complex creatures ffs. Very rarely does monogamy work for anyone. That's why divorced rates, cheating and whatever are so damn high and common amongst other reasons ofc.

If you love someone, even if you're separated in anyway even by different people, you'll still love each other and find a way back to each other.

A lot of dudes don't have a clue how many hundreds of guys hit up girls everyday and blow up their phones/DMs and such. Even when they're in relationships/spoken for and even married.
I've seen a lot of women and girls admit they love being in relationships just to cheat and they openly desire men who aren't available, who are already taken over single men too.

I don't approve of that at all but I can understand open relationships/polygamy/free passes/swinging a lot more now. I've seen couples who do some of those things at least be much happier than most monogamous couples

I used to be all about monogamy too but the more you expect someone to be loyal to you, to commit only to you, the more likely they won't and will feel like a caged bird. I learned that the hard way, many times.

True romantic monogamy is mostly fictional for a reason sadly. Its uncommon and unrealistic.
 
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