Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

Dating isn't hard
Most men are just fragile and can't accept rejections
They also have weird views about women or relationships.
While some women are vicious and all they care about is how good they look on the net and how much money they can get from their guys

All these red pills from women and men or whatever is just ruining everything even more
 
For real.

It's the whole I don't date Indian thing is a meme or real?

I just noticed OP (Monkey D Theories) is also indian origin
I mean I’m sure there are people who don’t want to date Indians, but nobody’s ever said that to my face.

I can’t say dating would be easier if I wasn’t Indian, it’s not like I know what it’s like for other people.

tbh I match more with Jews(I’m converting to Judaism btw) than Indians on dating apps. I do suppose religion/interests matter a lot more than your race, which doesn’t really have anything to do with your personality.
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Brutal.

Even Indian women in the west is the least likely to date Indian Men
People tend to marry within their “culture”, but I don’t think that’s inherently tied to race.

I know a Christian Indian woman who married a Christian Slavic guy. The Christian slav probably has more in common with her than someone like me.
 
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I mean I’m sure there are people who don’t want to date Indians, but nobody’s ever said that to my face.

I can’t say dating would be easier if I wasn’t Indian, it’s not like I know what it’s like for other people.

tbh I match more with Jews(I’m converting to Judaism btw) than Indians on dating apps. I do suppose religion/interests matter a lot more than your race, which doesn’t really have anything to do with your personality.
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People tend to marry within their “culture”, but I don’t think that’s inherently tied to race.

I know a Christian Indian woman who married a Christian Slavic guy. The Christian slav probably has more in common with her than someone like me.
Why does any of that matter to people when it comes to dating?
 
Why does any of that matter to people when it comes to dating?
Well I’d say something like religion would matter a lot because it determines your interests, culture, outlook on life, and how you want to raise your kids.

Race really wouldn’t matter, but I think most people have their preferences and that’s fine so long as you aren’t disrespectful about it. There are some things people should just keep to themselves.
 
People tend to marry within their “culture”, but I don’t think that’s inherently tied to race.

I know a Christian Indian woman who married a Christian Slavic guy. The Christian slav probably has more in common with her than someone like me.
I dont completely disagree with that statement. I couldn't give 2 shits about race but I'd have a hard time dating a religious person.
 
You bring her to West and she'd leave you in a second
Nice new pfp
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I dont completely disagree with that statement. I couldn't give 2 shits about race but I'd have a hard time dating a religious person.
thats another sort of religious preference lol what
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Well I’d say something like religion would matter a lot because it determines your interests, culture, outlook on life, and how you want to raise your kids.

Race really wouldn’t matter, but I think most people have their preferences and that’s fine so long as you aren’t disrespectful about it. There are some things people should just keep to themselves.
cope
 
Personally speaking I'm not opting for relationship anymore (I used think that 6 months ago). Found someone good , cultured and mannered.
Trust me my whole relationship history is so pathetic , women ended up cheating most of the time , validation and attention is to women what porn is to men. They can barely live without it.
There was no accountablity at all.
They blame their traumas in the end , and traumas are trend these days. I cheated because my uncle expired before I was born (my ex reasoning to cheating). And i was supposed to or expected to accept that because what else could I do. I got legal warning when I tried to hold her accoutable for it. (Charges being - mental trauma).
My current one is following law and in practice , helped me out of it , luckily no actions were ever taken.

I see so many men struggling from this on internet everyday , reddit/quora everywhere.

I found these golden words there
" Accountability is Kryptonite to Women ".
They know very well , they can get away with anything how law and legal system is getting designed now.

I'm not generalising every women into this , My current one isn't that kind either. Don't make this some hate comment Gainsy women.
But think of this as a general warning.
Because majority of women will be like this , if you want to know the number , see men around you who are addicted to porn , equate it to women needing attention and validation from multiple sources.
Bro I have to pretty much be pissed off and not talk to my girl in order for her to take accountability. I’m not the type to coddle a girl if she’s wrong she has to own that shit and change her behavior. After years of going back and fourth and some major issues she’s learned to be more accountable. I say that to say you’re absolutely right. Also to say relationships take work.
 

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Don't mind the name tag
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Well I’d say something like religion would matter a lot because it determines your interests, culture, outlook on life, and how you want to raise your kids.
Yea, it wouldn't be a stretch to say that different cultures (and by extension, races) can be a major factor in someone having different perspectives of what is considered ordinary and what is outside of it in different aspects of life

Including approaches to relationships, marriages, etc.
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I feel icky everytime I do.
Why, that Typhlosion origin story from Gamefreak not freaky enough for you?
 
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