What are your hopes and dreams?
- Thread starter Blax Blah
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-Develop the social skills I need to live a fulfilling life: Due to my autism condition, social skills are something I don't have naturally. This was one of the things that stopped me from enjoying my school life. Recently, during my online research, I discovered that social skills therapy exists, and that it can be life-saving for autistic people. I want to find out if this is available here in my town so I can do this treatment. If possible, I want to do this therapy before I start college and university. This way, I'll be able to do everything I didn't do in school: Build a circle of great friends, participate in the fun things people do on occasions like holidays, start interacting with girls, go on my first date, have my first kiss, and have my first girlfriend.
-Build a routine where I am the kind of person who has a lot of fun: I want to have a healthy and exciting life. I want to have a routine where I make the most of my days: Waking up at a good time, enjoying myself in my studies and work environments, exercising regularly, and in my free time, spending time with romantic partners, having fun with friends, and doing things like going to pubs and traveling to many places regularly, and going to sleep at a good time so I can wake up and repeat next day.
-Studying abroad in the United States and eventually moving there: I am studying to fully master English as my second language. When I do that, I want to do an exchange program in the United States, and eventually move there when I leave my parents's house. I want to experience all the good things that life in that country has to offer, both while studying abroad and living there.
-Have a professional life where I venture into the arts and sciences: Since I was little, I have shown talent for the arts and sciences. I want to fulfill the potential of my talents by doing great things in these areas and leave my mark on human history.
@Blax Blah @Yoho @NAMELESS @Rej @Mathias @Bullet
@Bisoromi Bear
-Build a routine where I am the kind of person who has a lot of fun: I want to have a healthy and exciting life. I want to have a routine where I make the most of my days: Waking up at a good time, enjoying myself in my studies and work environments, exercising regularly, and in my free time, spending time with romantic partners, having fun with friends, and doing things like going to pubs and traveling to many places regularly, and going to sleep at a good time so I can wake up and repeat next day.
-Studying abroad in the United States and eventually moving there: I am studying to fully master English as my second language. When I do that, I want to do an exchange program in the United States, and eventually move there when I leave my parents's house. I want to experience all the good things that life in that country has to offer, both while studying abroad and living there.
-Have a professional life where I venture into the arts and sciences: Since I was little, I have shown talent for the arts and sciences. I want to fulfill the potential of my talents by doing great things in these areas and leave my mark on human history.
@Blax Blah @Yoho @NAMELESS @Rej @Mathias @Bullet
@Bisoromi Bear
I want to get circumcised, move to New York, and marry an attractive Jewish woman
I am tbh a bit anxious about this. The circumcision stuff not so much, but moving to New York would mean leaving behind all my friends and family.
Oh well. I know it will be for the best. I just need to trust my heart.
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I am tbh a bit anxious about this. The circumcision stuff not so much, but moving to New York would mean leaving behind all my friends and family.
Oh well. I know it will be for the best. I just need to trust my heart.
I live in Salvador, a HUGE capital. The community is huge indeed, but the population is very divided and most people here want us dead. Hell, most of my FAMILY hates me and wants me dead. I only have my mother and two brothers. My father and one brother always hated me for being gay, so we've been estranged for 10+ years. My father until he passed away, my brother until now.
Maybe you should move
Iโd assume Rio or Sao Paolo would have a bigger gay population
I know I at least am planning on doing something similar. Converting to Judaism but I live in southern USA. I have a good community but tbh the dating pool is quite small. So I feel like it will be easier for me to get married if I moved to NYC, which is the most Jewish city in the world.
I know leaving is tough, but I think if itโs going to put you in a better place for the long run, it will probably be better.
If your current city is this homophobic, would you really want to get married and raise a family in such a place? Probably wouldnโt be the easiest.
Iโd assume Rio or Sao Paolo would have a bigger gay population
I know I at least am planning on doing something similar. Converting to Judaism but I live in southern USA. I have a good community but tbh the dating pool is quite small. So I feel like it will be easier for me to get married if I moved to NYC, which is the most Jewish city in the world.
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I know leaving is tough, but I think if itโs going to put you in a better place for the long run, it will probably be better.
If your current city is this homophobic, would you really want to get married and raise a family in such a place? Probably wouldnโt be the easiest.