It is probably unneccesary of me to say, but truthfully it is just to vent out my last lingering frustration;
I'm not saying I am innocent myself, there's obviously fault in me as well - but from the very begining you weren't really trying to understand my angle for challenging your claim.
While yes, I understand you were operating on your impression of what the host had told you, were not willing to try to understand my problem with your claim - pretty much completely refusing to consider a possibility that you may have misinterpreted something.
You can't just expect people (me in this case) to take everything at face value.
We are human, we make mistakes, we fuck up sometimes.
Because as you see now, we had a pretty big and relatively heated back and forth which has now been rendered completely pointless.
And it could all have been avoided if we actually tried to listen to one another.
I'm not saying I am innocent myself, there's obviously fault in me as well - but from the very begining you weren't really trying to understand my angle for challenging your claim.
While yes, I understand you were operating on your impression of what the host had told you, were not willing to try to understand my problem with your claim - pretty much completely refusing to consider a possibility that you may have misinterpreted something.
You can't just expect people (me in this case) to take everything at face value.
We are human, we make mistakes, we fuck up sometimes.
Because as you see now, we had a pretty big and relatively heated back and forth which has now been rendered completely pointless.
And it could all have been avoided if we actually tried to listen to one another.