Parents failing to parent their kids haven’t been able to do shit about music, video games, vapes, streaming content, or prescription drug abuses.
They’ve only succeeded where they’ve been allowed to succeed - because of profit.
Businesses don’t restrict their services unless they’re compelled by law or money, and capital owns the law pretty much everywhere in the world today.
The people you should be mad at will likely never have crossed paths when the types of parents you’re imagining are responsible.