Do you not see Michelle how you're talking past each other here? Let me just break it down.
The Chazzcore is a bit of fun. It's not serious. These games are seldom serious.
Setting that aside, there is common ground to be found. You need to filter the noise out and focus on that.
I firmly believe the best way to start this game is to remove or clear the low to no activity spots. Undermining the active players like this will not help in the long run.
Also Michelle I don't believe you still think your vote is best placed on me, not after all this evening.