That message was: working with towns is a two-way street. There has to be discussion and compromise. Jan went out of his way to show that he thought Yoho was town through posts and meta, and Flower is just disregarding that because "she's tunnelled right now". Just as Flower went out of her way to show that she thinks *you* are town by posts and meta. If she can't accept that maybe she is *wrongly* tunneled on Yoho despite Jan's word, then why should anybody accept *her* word on you.