Maybe..
I mean she didn't hesitate to kill Moscato.
Treated Chiffon like trash for hs the same appearance as Lola.
Would send assassin to Lola since she ran away from WCI.
Disrespected Pudding for her appearance.
Opera was afraid BM would kill him if Opera didn't stop Jinbei.
Brulee was afraid BM would kill her if she saw her associated with Firetank Pirates.
Smoothie chose not to inform her mother about Jinbe's revolt due to not wanting to have to deal with her mother's rage, knowing she would react violently to the news.
This is the worst part:
When Snack lost to Urouge, she demoted him for his failure to live up to his duties even though she sent an army to avenge him.
1. Big Mom was in her hunger rampage when she "killed" Moscato, you can't blame her for that as she is not in her right state of mind.
2. Yes treating Chiffon badly because she looks like Lola wasn't right.
3. Can you blame Big Mom for wanting Lola dead, she ruined her chance to became allies with the Giants of Elbaf.
4. Yes disrespecting Pudding's third eye wasn't right.
5. But would Big Mom have actually killed him though? We don't know for sure.
6. No Brûlée never said that, she said "Just don't let them see my face! If they know it's me, I'm dead!"
7. Yes Smoothie didn't want to inform Big Mom to make her angry mainly because the tea party was very close.
8. How the fuck is that the worst part? We don't even know when Snack became a General, being demoted is not a big deal and if Big Mom thinks that Snack is still not ready for the Sweet General position then he isn't.