And I'm telling you it doesn't exist. It's a moral panic that is a systemic creation by
whiteness in order to make black people divises themselves into those who are nice with white people, and those are are not nice with them
What you describe, is a perfectly reasonnable reaction in front of systemic oppressions.
In reality,
whiteness as a system created by white supremacy, uses this tool against ALL types of racialized and colonized population as philosopher
Frantz Fanon:
Very well explained himself in his anticolonial essay
Black Skin, White Masks:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Skin,_White_Masks
"For the Black man, there is only one destiny. And it is white. Long ago, the Black man admitted the indisputable superiority of the White man, and all his efforts are aimed at achieving a white existence"
This means that
white supremacy, capitalism and imperialism create systems
(either under colonialism or not) where racialized people (not just black people) actively seek the status of
whiteness (
the sociological concept) in order to survive the systemic oppression of their systems.
As such -
and I could be wrong of course - when you are implying to me that you are not like some other black people who are hatefull, and you managed to overcome your condition under this systemic oppressive system that is racism... you are doing the same thing as people coming from Asia
(who are also racialized) who are
coerced socially by
whiteness into the idea of becoming exemples of "assimilation" through
silence
There is no such thing as reverse racism or bigotry against white people. But there is something called whitesupremacy that created a social, economical and cultural system that is "
whiteness" which is currently preventing you from understanding my point about materialist form of leftist thinking at the moment.
And even then, it's not up to you to tell them what they are or are not. Like I said, gender and sexuality are highly nuanced subject. It's not always.