Oh, man, the sheer number of "Imu loves Lili, but like, she TOTALLY had the hots for Joyboy OMG!!!!😘😘😘" theories are actually wild. Mfers really just blatabtly ignore the part where the story literally tells us that Lili was openly on the side of Imu AGAINST Joyboy. And never betrayed him in any overt way that he could be certain was even a betrayal (even though he was clearly PRETTY sure she did, he had no evidence of it, which is why he showed up to question Cobra when he hrard he had a letter directly from Lili).
Its genuinely baffling. Like, do they not realise that if Lili was a Joyboy ally or something during the war then Alabasta wouldn't be a founding nation of the WG? And that if she was his lover or some shit they would NEVER have trusted her to be on their side (or if they did, they wouldn't be so uncertain of her betraying them; if Lili did some questionable shit while also being Joyboy's former side piece, then the knee jerk response would be "Oh, okay, so she turned on us. Gotcha.". Not "Okay, so she fucked up.......I wonder if it was an intentional fuck up though? 🤔") 😅