Do dating apps really work?

#21
The issue is though - now you have a whole group of men who are now without any partners; the male loneliness problem is rampant right now. So while women do have the prerogative to wait for the eights, it just means that an entire group of men are getting cut out. This unfortunately leads to the whole incel movement.
I think a lot of men being anxious about approaching women also contributes to it. So many women online hammer in the point that they don't want to be approached by creeps and so men decide to just not go up to them in general
 
#22
I think a lot of men being anxious about approaching women also contributes to it. So many women online hammer in the point that they don't want to be approached by creeps and so men decide to just not go up to them in general
I think the whole MeToo movement whilst important in calling out powerful men, ultimately drove a wedge between normal men and women. There’s a chasm between the genders and it isn’t being crossed anytime soon.
 
#32
You know how people are nowadays, I don't want to be labeled a creep or anything for simply trying to befriend someone lol
I'd rather just not try at all
You're being too self conscious now.
You're more scared of how they label you, and that's valid.
That's what you call spot light effect.
You think what other would think of you, but in reality no one does. They are all self obsessed thinking about themselves on what other would think of them. Not some random dude.

You have nothing to lose. You're not doing anything illegal. You're not trying to purposely make someone uncomfortable.
You're good to go.
Go and shoot your shot.

The way I see it, woman consider men who can't approach as " Incels " failures of the society.
Vs
Your way of looking at it as " Approaching " someone would mean, they will deam you Creep.
 
#33
You're being too self conscious now.
You're more scared of how they label you, and that's valid.
That's what you call spot light effect.
You think what other would think of you, but in reality no one does. They are all self obsessed thinking about themselves on what other would think of them. Not some random dude.

You have nothing to lose. You're not doing anything illegal. You're not trying to purposely make someone uncomfortable.
You're good to go.
Go and shoot your shot.

The way I see it, woman consider men who can't approach as " Incels " failures of the society.
Vs
Your way of looking at it as " Approaching " someone would mean, they will deam you Creep.
Sure, but what do you even say when you approach someone
 
#34
Why is your solution to every problem is a block.
:lusalty:
Why tf one would carry a block to a date.

What kind of country do you live in?
America and I was mostly joking about the glock part since ya know lol
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Why the fuck did you need to shoot someone
He hunts fish
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Frankly anyone would find it tough to strike conversation with strangers.
Especially of opposite gender.
Aye if she’s wearing a Sanji shirt, That’s easy money fir me! We can have year long convos after that
 
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#36
This is true, it'd only delay the inevitable for me since I just am not that great with people in general. Hard to strike conversations with complete strangers usually
yes it is but do it regardless. don't even try to ask someone out, just talk. that can get the pressure off too. if you get a good vibe, then ask them out.

i've asked out people directly and it never works. it only works if there's some kind of build up (and alcohol).
 
#39
Sure, but what do you even say when you approach someone
It's up to you.

Complimenting the looks is risky. Often seems too straightforward but I'm not saying that it doesn't work.

Jokes are always the best. But try to introduce yourself at some point too.

WORK ON YOUR JOKES.



Tip of the day : Even talking about trivial things such as weather for a moment isn't bad. It can help you feel the mood of the person, if he/she is open for a conversation for instance. You don't have to say fantastic stuff.


Send me money and I'll give more feet pics tips :)
 
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