Do dating apps really work?

[Mathias]

I'm sorry ?

It looked like you were saying that his parents and especially his mom was holed by so many men for being on an app. Before she met his father and made a judgment about it about how it should work better with an airplane that you may have compared to a pussy.

I mean I really don’t understand your post at all

 

[Logiko]

It looked like you were saying that his parents and especially his mom was holed by so many men for being on an app. Before she met his father and made a judgment about it about how it should work better with an airplane that you may have compared to a pussy.

I mean I really don’t understand your post at all

oh...




No lol. I wanted to see if they understood what a survivorship bias was.

 

[moreha9685]

It's not because it worked for your closed one that it does work in reality. In reality it doesn't, there are just a few that got lucky.

Those whom it worked for is the reality. The plane bullshit is the abstraction.

 

[Logiko]

Those whom it worked for is the reality. The plane bullshit is the abstraction.

Go tell that to planes who were shut down and didn't return or the people who never found someone on these app. These app are not constructed to work. By design, they can only create fake solutions or exceptionnal ones. Not systematic answer to the problem. If that was the case everyone would be using them and everyone would find someone and we wouldn't be isolated from each others.

 

[moreha9685]

Go tell that to planes who were shut down and didn't return or the people who never found someone on these app. These app are not constructed to work. By design, they can only create fake solutions or exceptionnal ones. Not systematic answer to the problem. If that was the case everyone would be using them and everyone would find someone and we wouldn't be isolated from each others.

The apps allow you to find anybody.
It's your own standards keeping that connection, be it purely carnal or romantic, from happening.
At their very basics, the apps do what they're designed to do.
The trouble arises from human pickiness.

 

[Logiko]

The apps allow you to find anybody.

Ok, listen, I don't really like that but I'm gonna share the video of a french psychologist that should help you understand what I'm saying.

Put subtitle on (it has some) and watch the video, you will understand what I'm saying. It would be too long to explain in details.

 

[Bisoromi Bear]

Funny because we can have a political look on this an explain that a good couple would be one that can manage to get their material condition and material interest either aligned or complementary. But when the material conditions and interests of one contradicts the one of the others it becomes a problem. (most of the time it's related to the differences under patriarchy but it can differ and be broaden)

Wow
Even in a dating thread you manage to sneak in mATeRiAL cOnDiTioNs

 

[Logiko]

Wow
Even in a dating thread you manage to sneak in mATeRiAL cOnDiTioNs

Because it's how reality influence our social life, so it's important in pretty much everything. And it's important to adjust our thinking process in accordance to this knowledge.