How to get over heartbreak?

C

critical mindset

#61
so basically you didn't press charge because you didn't want this to draw attention because of how your society deals with the "accused" ? now that's why the world is full snakes
Yeah count your lucky stars, and it's all water under the bridge now, but it was pretty unsettling experience as a 17 year old kid but is way in the past. In those situations, just beg it's all you can do:cheers:
 
#65
Well, I have never been heartbroken, cause I never truly experienced a true legit love which I hear in stories... what I encountered are few breakups, but you can say I had admiration and took a big liking to them... but not necessarily a fantasy love I would say that leaves my heart aching so much...

Anyway, here are my few simple advices for you:

1- IF you are new to the dating world, YOU HAVE TO go out and date other people just for a period of time, DO NOT aim for a new relationship very fast, but at least try to mingle with others for some time...even if it was just casual company and fun with someone without anything too serious... The reason I say that is, when you are NEW to the dating world, you can fall EASY to the illusion that you are in love, but what you're experiencing is something else... which is VERY TRICKY...and dating diffrent people for some period without the intention of being in a relationship can clear things up for you...

2- However, if you have been in the dating world for a good while, and you dated many others before... but this person, feels so special to you... I'm sorry man, I cannot really help you with good advice regarding true love cause I never was in that position myself... BUT, I must say that if she LOVES you too, but the only obstacle is big dick... I must say that she doesn't love you, not one bit.... and you have to ask yourself... would you be okay to actually be in a relationship where love is ONESIDED???? cause let me tell you one thing that NOT MANY PEOPLE SAY..... people who only care about size in bed, are the WORST in bed... because to tell you frankly, they think that sex is JUST LIKE in porn movies... which is 180 degrees opposite... There are PLENTY of ways to pleasure a woman or man (if you're gay) without needing that 8-10 inches dick.... and by Plenty and I mean it... PLENTY.... you can be very resourceful in bed (hands, tongue, even freakin' dildos if needed...etc)... it's fucking 2020

Point is... if she truly values you for who you are.... you both would find ways to pleasure each others WITHOUT splitting up...

That's like being in love with a petite woman, but saying "well, I cannot handle your small boobs, I only want big boobs" so we're splitting up LMAO... that's how the dynamic is going right now my friend... So, ask yourself, would you be ready to try be in a relationship with someone who will not have a shred of feelings for you? and it's onesided? or would you rather to move on... try finding different match and build that spark/connection with a genuine person?
 
Z
#67
Heartbreak is painful, it's difficult to go from talking to someone everyday to never hearing from them ever again and having your heart completely shattered. Try to take some time to your self to heal, you should try crying to let all your emotions out. Try distracting yourself with some new hobbies, and after you think enough time has passed, then consider trying to meet new people and start dating people.

Eventually you'll find yourself falling inlove with someone new again. Time heals all heartbreaks.
 
#68
I had had my heart broken before, worst part I never got to know the reason why I wasn’t “good enough” in that person‘s eyes, and I still don’t know after 6 long years.

you Have a tough time going over someone if you genuinely love him/her. in my case, everyone around me was telling me to “get over it“ and ”don’t exaggerate things” but it just didn’t work for me that way.

i finally found someone who gave me everything and more, Told her about all my problems, she accepted them like if they were qualities, told her about my medical condition, she told me it’s our medical condition now and we will go through it together. Told her about my dreams and asked about her dreams, she replied your dreams are my dreams, I found she was deeply in love with me, but more importantly, I found myself deeply in love with her, attached to her.

before I found my significant other, the pain I got from my heartbroken experience never went away, it bugged me every night.

now, I don’t remember anything about it, I have someone better to live for.
 

Jew D. Boy

I Can Go Lower
#69
I had had my heart broken before, worst part I never got to know the reason why I wasn’t “good enough” in that person‘s eyes, and I still don’t know after 6 long years.

you Have a tough time going over someone if you genuinely love him/her. in my case, everyone around me was telling me to “get over it“ and ”don’t exaggerate things” but it just didn’t work for me that way.

i finally found someone who gave me everything and more, Told her about all my problems, she accepted them like if they were qualities, told her about my medical condition, she told me it’s our medical condition now and we will go through it together. Told her about my dreams and asked about her dreams, she replied your dreams are my dreams, I found she was deeply in love with me, but more importantly, I found myself deeply in love with her, attached to her.

before I found my significant other, the pain I got from my heartbroken experience never went away, it bugged me every nigh.

now, I don’t remember anything about it, I have someone better to live for.
This is great to hear!! There’s someone out there who’s perfect for each one of us, we just have to be open to finding them :myman:
 
#71
She likes big dicks, at least 8 inches but ideally 9 or 10.
Search natural treatment to increase penis length like pulling the penis forward in massage. There are videos about that on YouTube. It takes days and weeks until you reach the length you aim for. There is more to tell, but it's embarrassing to continue saying it here. I don't mind to talk about it here publicly though. :catblush:
 
#77
Lol, I don't know how the notifications work for you because for me it's basically single moms or hot 20 babes right around the corner. Only one click! :milaugh:
You know I live in Bali, one of the most touristic island in the world. So applications like tinder works super good here, given the fact that people comes and go, and when they come it's almost certain taht they want to have fun . Basically everyday you got new faces around the corner.
 
F

Formerly Seth

#78
You know I live in Bali, one of the most touristic island in the world. So applications like tinder works super good here, given the fact that people comes and go, and when they come it's almost certain taht they want to have fun . Basically everyday you got new faces around the corner.
How does living on a touristic island looks from your perspective?

In my country, a large amount of the people go to the near sea resorts and all of that shit and when I was going there too I was wondering how does it look from the perspective of people who basically live there always.
 
#79
How does living on a touristic island looks from your perspective?

In my country, a large amount of the people go to the near sea resorts and all of that shit and when I was going there too I was wondering how does it look from the perspective of people who basically live there always.
Well i even work in touristic area. I'm a tour planner and tour guide for adventure stuff like hiking, rafting, snorkeling etc not only for Bali for the whole Indonesia.
Well, it's just the same as anywhere else I guess, there is always the good side and the bad side. From what I feel tho, I enjoy it very much bcs this way I can meet a lot of people from so many different culture and learn a lot of things from them. The best part maybe here in Bali is that crimes are very low, so we can really chill and enjoy life without too much worrying.
The sad part is maybe that we lose more and more of our authenticity as we build more and more ressorts and stuff. But you can still find some hidden gems such as desserted beaches and stuff here if you really want to explore. And also from the economy point of view is kinda sad also bcs we can clearly see a huge economic gap between the tourists and the local people, but people seems not to care about it so overall it's not a big deal.
Some tourists are problems also sometimes especially those drunkards. Well i'm a heavy drinker aswell but I always know how to behave no matter how drunk I am.
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Oh and where do you live if I may know?
 

Warchief Sanji D Goat

Queen Gunko!➡️⬆️⬇️⬅️
#80
Well i even work in touristic area. I'm a tour planner and tour guide for adventure stuff like hiking, rafting, snorkeling etc not only for Bali for the whole Indonesia.
Well, it's just the same as anywhere else I guess, there is always the good side and the bad side. From what I feel tho, I enjoy it very much bcs this way I can meet a lot of people from so many different culture and learn a lot of things from them. The best part maybe here in Bali is that crimes are very low, so we can really chill and enjoy life without too much worrying.
The sad part is maybe that we lose more and more of our authenticity as we build more and more ressorts and stuff. But you can still find some hidden gems such as desserted beaches and stuff here if you really want to explore. And also from the economy point of view is kinda sad also bcs we can clearly see a huge economic gap between the tourists and the local people, but people seems not to care about it so overall it's not a big deal.
Some tourists are problems also sometimes especially those drunkards. Well i'm a heavy drinker aswell but I always know how to behave no matter how drunk I am.
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Oh and where do you live if I may know?
Seth is currently live in Poland I believe.:bamathink:
 
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