Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

Imagine repeatedly messaging your ex from a year ago while on a date lmfao.

And that was just one red-flag among many.

I'll definitely remember that.

I'm not even being picky when I say I deserve better.


edit: also rereading your message, and not sure yo understood me fella
Believe me I was on same page . Meet childhood friend in reunion party we texted a lot then all of a sudden she started ignored me .


I was depressed as hell what went wrong . Later I got to know she had a boyfriend .

At times the relationship fails , I accepted it and moved on . Plenty of fish it’s not end of the world .

I understand your situation alright , it dies feel embarrassing when ex or a girl fail to move in next stage . I understood Human psychic people often lose interest if they find you less appealing or spend time with you .

I hope you get one I ll suggest you not to give up immediately . It’s good you keep yourself busy with Job or school stuff .
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This is the most retarded insult ever. What is involuntary about it? Pay for it and call it a day. Its not that special.
If you are valueing someone on whether or not they got your dick wet then you are a piece of human garbage.

Date people you do not necessarily have a sexual interest in.
It builds confidence and other people from the opposite sex view you as more desirable.

Now for the real asshat advice.
If you talk to a group of girls then give the 2nd ugliest one the most attention.
You either get an easy to secure bag or you make the prettier ones jealous enough to get them interested in you.
Do not shoot me, I am just the messenger.
It depends pretty girl usually are ambitious in nature they know they are pretty and guys are after them it’s not necessary they will be jeleous if you pick one of their buddies .

Better don’t date if one of the lady in the group worship her as an idol it gives me negative vibe in general . It can be pretty negative she will constantly compare her life to themselves . I have seen they can be very insecure and constantly self hating .

I honestly say choose the nerds the ones you ignore in your college days they are pretty loyal .
 
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I wish more men are like you but everyone wants to get laid it’s crazy . I am surprised some brag they did before college it’s like they won a noble prize or something .
It's a very strange concept for me that people think basic physiological functions are worthy of an award. Conversely, it can be so much more special if it's the first time for both parties. And on top of that, it demonstrates self control, not falling prey to desires by giving yourself up to someone you barely know.

Even if I ended up in a new relationship (god forbid), I would still wait a while before getting intimate. Emotional connection is so important. And I think the way someone treats sex says a lot about if they'd be a good long term partner.
 
It's a very strange concept for me that people think basic physiological functions are worthy of an award. Conversely, it can be so much more special if it's the first time for both parties. And on top of that, it demonstrates self control, not falling prey to desires by giving yourself up to someone you barely know.

Even if I ended up in a new relationship (god forbid), I would still wait a while before getting intimate. Emotional connection is so important. And I think the way someone treats sex says a lot about if they'd be a good long term partner.
I agree relationship requires patience and time . Unfortunately people want to get laid .


I definitely think this is because of fast dating culture we are in living in right now . People want things to be done very fast and later regret it.

I always suggest to my cousins if they are dating enjoy your time , learn about her ,likes and dislikes . Getting laid should be last in your mind don’t fall into bs speed dating and regret the outcome . Dating is hard , relationship Floria’s like tree you need to let it grow . But that doesn’t mean you should be in friendzone 😛 treat her like friend , let the woman know you love but you will take relationship in slow and steady way .
 

K!NG HARA$H!MA

Hustlerversity Graduate
I honestly don't get why white people actually think returning to traditionalism would help anything
Returning back to traditionalism just means eventually things will be like thr current thing in few years.

That's why nostalgia and longing for the past as problem solver is retarded. You are here because you was there. You are here because you was there.
 
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