Like, a trust tell is explicitly an agreement made outside of the game to behave a certain way across games, on the stake of your personal reputation outside of the game. It's explicitly bringing something outside the game into the game, and something that at least seems to have emotional weight to you.
As I was including earlier, I don't think less of you for it. I don't have a personal stake with you. But if the community is okay with trust tells, that greatly reduces my interest in considering it as an option for a place to play again. And that seems to also be the same for others. That's not about you personally, but about what style of game people want to play.