Nah, real women like confidence and character. You're a good guy, be honest with yourself about what you bring to the table, and look for people who are interested.
Style really helps, too. Most people think that having a style means you have to be flashy, but, it's really just about finding what clothes, hairstyles, and other stuff fit your looks and personality. You can tell when people are comfortable with their looks, even if they look weird. Finding a look that makes you feel comfortable about yourself does wonders.
You got this!