Bro, get help, like seriously. You don't know the first thing about being in a relationship with a woman. Your outlook on marriage and relationships is equivalent to that of a 14 year old child. Stop making assumptions when you truly don't have a clue about my life or who I am in real life. My wife knows I like dua lipa, she doesn't care if I talk about dua lipa from time to time. We are both adults that understand we are human and still have desires, speaking on them doesn't equate to cheating. Seriously, you have some growing up to do.