Thats exactly my hellish situation. I LOVE the flavour of chillies but I am extremely sensitive to a lot of things including pain, chillies, mouthwash and such. A lot of things that don't bother other people cause me hell and they don't understand why lol.
I used to be able to eat many jalapenos and put them deliberately on my food along with hot sauce at times but now I can't eat more than a few on average, especially depending on their seeds/spiciness and such! Green/red finger chillies or anything else are out of the question too!
One time I was at a Carribean restaurant, I ordered jerk chicken and it came with Habanero sauce on the side. I foolished tried a tiny of drop of it and was burning in pain for 10 minutes and then all night I SUFFERED in a different department of my body as you can guess!
It sucks as its part of my culture to love chillies/spicy food and my family LOVE it for that reason too, I get envious watching my grandmother eating green chillies, slapping on hot sauce all over food and asking for it to be spicier and such and there I'm like:
Also for you
@Pot Goblin btw, just found it!: