It's not like anyone will help you financially in the same way, a guy would for a girl
and it's not like you get emotional support of any kind afterall if your weak you show emotions
everyone leaves at some point anyway, just so much stress for what benefit anyway couple of nights of entertainment??
Spend the date with no make up, with casual clothes, talking about long term stuff like the worst side of each's physical quality, what can be changed and improved from each side and agreement to those points, the insceruit6 and worst personality and habits and physical / body ugliness, interaction preferences, family planning for the future, treat the date like a science conference while being honest about self-weaknesses, and settle for long-term relationship if the conference go smoothly and click.
After those conference-style dates and it matches, then you can proceed with chummy cuddling, athletic sex, being romantic and having fun etc
...lol i wish dating can be done like this.