First I continue a little because I already wrote what follows.
Big Mom -> I never want to be alone again -> Boom Soul fruit
Streusen -> I'm a cook and I want to make food -> Boom food fruit
Drake -> Tyrannosaurus looks cool -> Boom T rex fruit
King -> I have wings but I can't fly, I wanna fly ! -> Boom flying dinosaur fruit
Shiki -> I want everything under my control -> Boom Float fruit
Kidd -> I come from a Metal Island, I want to wreck stuff -> Boom Magnetic fruit
Robin -> If only I had ears everywhere, hands everywhere, I could know what's happening and react
Law -> I wanna cure myself and everybody -> boom miracle treatment fruit
Marco -> I wanna cure myself and everybody -> boom miracle treatment fruit
Urouge -> I am Karma, when someone hit me, I want to hit him back and shows him consequences of his actions -> boom reverse Strength fruit
Foxy -> everybody stronger and faster than I am, if only I could slow them down -> Boom Slow fruit
Sugar -> I want everybody to be my toys -> Toys fruit
2nd, thanks for your attention concerning, like
@Doggo said, an already, at least partially debunked theory.
Well the counter theory has proven efficient so far, this isn't stupid.
Of course we can't preemptively necessarily expect to find a counter to every devil fruit that has a specific inclination despite it intuitively seems like so.
But yes it makes sense nevertheless.
Its not as bad as you make the title to be. Maybe tweak it a little to " the fruit resonates to the will of the people compatible to its nature, so the fruit's soul twisted the people's subconscious to bring the compatible user closer to the fruit's location, emabling them to find and eat it" ?
But don't we have instances of people saying that are catalogs of each fruit and what power that specific fruit contains? So it would already debunk that.
Shanks KNEW he fruit Luffy ate was the Rubber fruit. BB KNEW the Yami Yami no Mi.
Doflamingo KNEW the Mera Mera, etc.
A "luck" factor that one draw someone compatible towards a specific fruit seems more reasonable indeed.
I think the most reasonable explanation for these seemingly "fitting" fruit and characters ambitions is Oda giving a theme to characters.
Oda gave Blackbeard the Yami fruit because Blackbeard possibly wants everything.
Big Mom got her fruit because it is an overpowered one, like Whitebeard one, and it fit her character theme : she gather lot of people and manipulate them out of fear.
Buggy got his partially because it is Luffy reverse fruit. Luffy did not fear bullet while fearing swords while Buggy did not fear Sword but feared bullets.
However, I find interesting how well lots of those fruits matched characyers desires and ambitions.