I hate Tama because of how much of BIG ASS PLOT DEVICE she is, and it's so Lazy, she has enough plot device for 4 different characters in one.
I think Oda clumped a bunch of characters in one.
And Sanji 1/2 of my hate is because of the pervert gag since Thriller Bark, but even worse since Post-TS, the other 1/2 of my hate is because it's fun to piss of Sanji fans.
So yeah, i hate Tama way more than Sanji.