Okay, I disagree with practically everything you're saying here.
1. There are HUGE issues in current day Japan in regards to harassment and Oda is writing for an audience in MODERN day Japan, most of his audience are teenagers who follow modern day traditions and have, as you liked to call it, "modern ideals". Oda should be able to cater to that.
2. The Bleach scene you're mentioning is a completely redundant argument, I am not complaining about Sanji being perverted, his perversion isn't the issue here. It is the fact that his perversion is in DIRECT CONFLICT with his main ideals. Brook is a pervert just like Sanji but he doesn't preach that women should be put on a pedestal, and he is willing to fight a woman as seen in his fight vs Big Mom. He doesn't treat women any differently than how he treats men, iirc.
3. In one of the instances I showed, the one during the Return to Sabaody arc, the women that Sanji is
disrespecting and degrading are
clearly affected by his actions. They look uncomfortable. That much is evident. The
anime scene explored on this and had them run away from Sanji, is that not disrespectful? To make a woman run away because she is afraid of your perversive ways?
4. That last paragraph you wrote is definitely interesting, it tells me a lot about you as a person haha. Life can be black and white for the most part, and it can be grey at times, it definitely isn't "totally clear", however on a topic like this, I am sure you can ask any good-natured person what their stance of Sanji's behaviour is and they will tell you he is being disrespectful. Making women feel uncomfortable through perversion is VERY commonly found to be disrespectful, this has always been the case and if you're telling me that it is disrespectful to
assume that women that women don't want to be treated in a perversive manner, then you are indeed, a very interesting individual.
For 1 and 2:
I'll refer you back to what one of the member stated about the difference between Sanji and Absalom.
For 3:
That's true, I will not disagree with this scene. But the justification Oda already gave which is that Sanji was having "issues" after coming back from Kamabakka Kingdom. As he was weak in resisting considering he have not seen a single woman for 2 years. Which resulted in him acting "out of his character"
Where the usual Sanji will just be pervert but without forcing himself and be too pushy to reach a harrassment level. But this scene, no one can disagree with you that it reached a level or harrassment, however, I'll say it again, in terms of story writing, it was justified by Oda as to why Sanji acted this way! So there is no contradiction!
Oda even made sure to highlight the idea of Chopper supervising Sanji and treating him.
Eventually, blaming a "sickness" which is a gag sickness, but nontheless since you don't care if it's just a gag. i will say that sanji has been going through sickness. And in modern law, being having sickness that justifies your actions will only make you go through treatment until you are ready.
People have escaped murder in our world because they were sick, and lawyers justified it as that. Regardless if they were actually true and right, or they were pretending to be psycologically ill.
So, the point is, your whole number 3 was justified with Oda making Chopper realize that Sanji is suffering with ladies "more than he usually does" and he cannot contain himself at all.
4- I still disagree. Nothing can be totally black and white. Sure, in our society, I do have moral stance on many things saying that's right and that's wrong. But this same society after few hundred years, you will see them have a TOTAL different moral stance on so many things.
Oda writes the most well-versed most expanding Story I have ever seem in my life. Everything about this life, and everything abput myths, and every other things can all exist in this manga.
For you to simply demand Oda to write his story in a limited way and cater to specific mentality is what stupid Hollywood are doing! That's why I stopped watching cringy hollywood shit as most movies became so cringy in a way trying to "educate" the public about how you should think!
So, no! Oda should write his story however he wants, the way he likes... and if the "japanese" people are having problems with Sanji, and having problems with Oda's way of writing.. you wouldn't finf One Piece as popular as it is in Japan! And basically loved by everyone!
You would have seen tons of people accusing Oda of writing inappropriate stuff for their generation by making one of the main character act this way.
So... because Oda has authenticity about his work.. writes what he likes... even with silly gags which you want to make big deals out of it! He has shown success beyond any manga. He's authentic. And he does not CATER to no one!
He writes and delivers the messages he wants to deliver.
Catering is the act of cowards who wants cheap success route! Aka what Hollywood is like now!