Best thing that happened to you today?
- Thread starter TheKnightOfTheSea
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maybe it IS a good thing then
Why talk to people who despise you
maybe it IS a good thing then
Why talk to people who despise you
So, even if they at start believed in something else… because they don’t want to get on the bad side of my father.. they simply do whatever he wants.. that includes going against my choices for my own life disregarding it’s my life.. my choices, my career, and I’m the one after 10 years will be with regrets if I didn’t go after the life I wanted…
For them… they will lie after 10 years and say “no one forced you to accept” and “we don’t remember… that was 10 years ago” and so on… no one will take responsibility except myself in future..
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Well, you can my dad used to be a light version of his dad. Good that he changed over the years. I can now have normal conversations with my dad from time to time, ~ 10 years ago this was not possible.
One has to show their parents that one is NOT ok with their demanding, elitist behavior. Maybe they are not fully aware how they are ruining their relationship with you, maybe they were raised like this and don't know how to do better.
Some parents can actually improve over the years when they understand that they were wrong in showing this kind of behavior towards their children.
But those who don't, just fuck them.
my dad used to be a light version of his dad. Good that he changed over the years. I can now have normal conversations with my dad from time to time, ~ 10 years ago this was not possible.One has to show their parents that one is NOT ok with their demanding, elitist behavior. Maybe they are not fully aware how they are ruining their relationship with you, maybe they were raised like this and don't know how to do better.
Some parents can actually improve over the years when they understand that they were wrong in showing this kind of behavior towards their children.
But those who don't, just fuck them.
Well, you can my dad used to be a light version of his dad. Good that he changed over the years. I can now have normal conversations with my dad from time to time, ~ 10 years ago this was not possible.
One has to show their parents that one is NOT ok with their demanding, elitist behavior. Maybe they are not fully aware how they are ruining their relationship with you, maybe they were raised like this and don't know how to do better.
Some parents can actually improve over the years when they understand that they were wrong in showing this kind of behavior towards their children.
But those who don't, just fuck them.
my dad used to be a light version of his dad. Good that he changed over the years. I can now have normal conversations with my dad from time to time, ~ 10 years ago this was not possible.One has to show their parents that one is NOT ok with their demanding, elitist behavior. Maybe they are not fully aware how they are ruining their relationship with you, maybe they were raised like this and don't know how to do better.
Some parents can actually improve over the years when they understand that they were wrong in showing this kind of behavior towards their children.
But those who don't, just fuck them.
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Yes it's sad. But if someone has a dad who is like Judge, there's no other way.
Another big problem is toxic masculinity in some cultures. Men who have toxic masculinity have a very hard time understanding that they are wrong with something or that they made a mistake.
That's why I said that "iT's oUr CuLtuRe" is not an acceptable excuse. Toxic masculinity is not limited to a specific culture, it can grow in any culture that allows it.
Another big problem is toxic masculinity in some cultures. Men who have toxic masculinity have a very hard time understanding that they are wrong with something or that they made a mistake.
That's why I said that "iT's oUr CuLtuRe" is not an acceptable excuse. Toxic masculinity is not limited to a specific culture, it can grow in any culture that allows it.
