I know that much. This is supposed to happen when there are disputes b/w the man and his wife or vice-versa. But it's a different story when a third person enters the frame. Cheating is cheating regardless of who does it. You can't call it a criminal offense when a man does it and then look around and say it's OK when a woman does the same. I know how bad the American system is, but I think even they're not this dumb.