Some of us are abrasive lol, I'm certainly included in that. It's not personal. The game gets heated sometimes and some of us just play with an edge of sorts, it's not really reflective of how we are as people in different settings. Look, you don't have to like everyone. You are also free to consider some of us arseholes - probably fair. But I promise you that there is no vendetta or grudge against you. Speaking for myself, I neither like nor dislike you - I don't know you, but I'm happy to play Mafia games with you without any reservations. I've had the misfortune of knowing some truly awful people over the years across the many forums I've played this silly game on, you're probably not one of them, and that's where my association and concern starts and ends. Forgive the unsolicited advice, but I think you could perhaps do with separating the player from the poster behind them, if that makes sense.