Well, it's impossible to tell someone meta in words. Meta reflects one's subconsciousness and recognizes the subtle difference in someone's play. Since if a player lacks the shared subconscious experience and consensus inherent in playing mafia with the said player they will not recognize the intention of that player. The only difference between playing as mafia, Indie, or Town our priorities. Altogether, different priorities create different meta, not your gameplay, personality, or anything else and you could not change your priorities you can only hide them. Call it a difference of opinion and philosophy.