That's a false correlation.

If a couple has a healthy sex life, it doesnt matter if they used to have sex with more people before getting together.
A healthy sex life is what prevents people from cheating most of the time.

I'm gonna tell you something now.
Porn and hentai is not reality.
99% of the time you don't get to have sex once with a girl and suddenly she becomes some sex goddess that only craves for your dick.
Most couples who do not have any kind of sex experience end up with subpar sex lives. They have no idea what to do.
They try something they saw in a porn once, they end up hurting the partner, etc.


And just to be clear, not trying to preach that people should never only have sex after marriage. I think that's a personal resolution and I don't question it.
But what happens after that tends to be the problem.
That's all.
Are you advocating for premarital sex?
Lets take a look of consequences;

"It’s been established that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage sometimes leads to less happy marriages and increases the odds of divorce." Source

"This study sought to determine whether having a higher number of non-marital sex partners lowered the likelihood that people would eventually get married. Our analyses demonstrate that having more numerous sex partners is indeed associated with lower odds of marriage, but only in the short term. Longitudinal data from 17 waves of the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth (1997) cohort indicate that multiple partners decreases the immediate likelihood of marriage." Source

"Multiple sex partners prior to marriage reduced marital quality for women, but not men. Along similar lines, sociologist Jay Teachman showed that premarital sex between future spouses didn’t make divorce more likely, but sex with other people did." Source

Now that we know premarital sex can lead to divoce. Lets see the trend of single mothers in America.

"In the United States, since the 1960s, there has been an increase in the number of children living with a single parent. The jump was caused by an increase in births to unmarried women and by the increasing prevalence of divorces among couples. In 2010, 40.7% of births in the US were to unmarried women." Source

"About one in five children is living with a single mom" Pew Research; Source
"Nearly half of Americans now say single women raising children on their own is bad for society". Pew Research; Source

Now that we know most women who have premarital sex end up being single moms and Americans think that it is bad for society, lets look at psychological and economic impacts of this practice

"
Ongoing Conflict with an Ex. Divorce and separation are hard enough, but continuing conflict with a child's other parent can erode a single mom's mental health. Bullying, manipulation, withholding child support and violating divorce agreements are among the many behaviors divorced women tell us they face." Source; MentalHealthAmerica.org

"Single mothers generally remain impoverished longer than divorced mothers. Whereas divorced mothers who receive welfare do so for three to four years, the always-single mother is less likely to stop receiving welfare and takes longer to exit poverty."

"Single mothers experienced high unemployment rates and were more likely to exit the labor force than single fathers and women without children." Source; Fed Reserve Bank

You may find it cool to say that it is ok to have premarital sex, but research, economical, and psychological figures tells a different story.

Additionally, the children of such mothers have issues beyond your imagination. These mothers also turn to sex work, onlyfans, and what not.
 
Are you advocating for premarital sex?
Lets take a look of consequences;

"It’s been established that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage sometimes leads to less happy marriages and increases the odds of divorce." Source

"This study sought to determine whether having a higher number of non-marital sex partners lowered the likelihood that people would eventually get married. Our analyses demonstrate that having more numerous sex partners is indeed associated with lower odds of marriage, but only in the short term. Longitudinal data from 17 waves of the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth (1997) cohort indicate that multiple partners decreases the immediate likelihood of marriage." Source

"Multiple sex partners prior to marriage reduced marital quality for women, but not men. Along similar lines, sociologist Jay Teachman showed that premarital sex between future spouses didn’t make divorce more likely, but sex with other people did." Source

Now that we know premarital sex can lead to divoce. Lets see the trend of single mothers in America.

"In the United States, since the 1960s, there has been an increase in the number of children living with a single parent. The jump was caused by an increase in births to unmarried women and by the increasing prevalence of divorces among couples. In 2010, 40.7% of births in the US were to unmarried women." Source

"About one in five children is living with a single mom" Pew Research; Source
"Nearly half of Americans now say single women raising children on their own is bad for society". Pew Research; Source

Now that we know most women who have premarital sex end up being single moms and Americans think that it is bad for society, lets look at psychological and economic impacts of this practice

"Ongoing Conflict with an Ex. Divorce and separation are hard enough, but continuing conflict with a child's other parent can erode a single mom's mental health. Bullying, manipulation, withholding child support and violating divorce agreements are among the many behaviors divorced women tell us they face." Source; MentalHealthAmerica.org

"Single mothers generally remain impoverished longer than divorced mothers. Whereas divorced mothers who receive welfare do so for three to four years, the always-single mother is less likely to stop receiving welfare and takes longer to exit poverty."

"Single mothers experienced high unemployment rates and were more likely to exit the labor force than single fathers and women without children." Source; Fed Reserve Bank

You may find it cool to say that it is ok to have premarital sex, but research, economical, and psychological figures tells a different story.

Additionally, the children of such mothers have issues beyond your imagination. These mothers also turn to sex work, onlyfans, and what not.
Science is the shit.Good post.
 
Technically you need 0.
But 50 is fun, why restrain yourself?



This has nothing to do with self respect. it's just love dude...



Actually no, I'm rather masculinist than feminist. But a positive masculinity :)
And I again don't understand your post nor your point... Dude. Stay on the subject, you make no sence.


Damn... do you have more to add on the sexism here ?


To good people.. not those who disrespect them bro



Well i'm sure the kids looked, right ? :milaugh:



That must be really hard to live in a mindset where you absolutely need to put cloth on to feel good..
I make no sense? What nonsense is this?

Again, I am curious about how your deranged brain works. Cant you comprehend what I just explained?
 
I make no sense? What nonsense is this?

Again, I am curious about how your deranged brain works. Cant you comprehend what I just explained?
wuat ?

t’s been established that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage sometimes leads to less happy marriages and increases the odds of divorce." Source
Also:
"But the surprising thing, Wolfinger said, is that women with exactly two premarital sex partners have consistently higher divorce rates than women with three to nine partners. "

Now that we know most women who have premarital sex end up being single moms and Americans think that it is bad for society, lets look at psychological and economic impacts of this practice .
Lmao. I think your are confusing correlation for consequence here.. Your studies didn't show premarital sex as a cause for divorce, just a way that it happens that more premarital sex often means more divorce.. Which can be easily explain by the fact that more premarital sex means a better understanding of one self and thus a lesser acceptance for toxic behaviors that can lead to divorce.

Plus.. You are making bigger shortcut that Toad on Mario kart...
 
wuat ?


Also:
"But the surprising thing, Wolfinger said, is that women with exactly two premarital sex partners have consistently higher divorce rates than women with three to nine partners. "


Lmao. I think your are confusing correlation for consequence here.. Your studies didn't show premarital sex as a cause for divorce, just a way that it happens that more premarital sex often means more divorce.. Which can be easily explain by the fact that more premarital sex means a better understanding of one self and thus a lesser acceptance for toxic behaviors that can lead to divorce.

Plus.. You are making bigger shortcut that Toad on Mario kart...
so,if she wishes to avoid divorce,she either waits or goes full slut lol
 
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