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Gorosei Informer

Allow me add one more Reason.

That they are traumatized and that give them the right to damage other people and use their trauma as a Justification to it.
Absolutely true man. Hurt people hurt others. Cycle of abuse. Generational trauma etc.
Amount of girls who used me to spite their bfs/exes or guys who rejected them, SMH.
 
Nah she single, for me just makes no sense how you can be everything they look for (per their own words) and still not be enough.

So i'll just put a stop to it.

I wont go for anyone, i'm just gonna be me and if a girl fancies it she knows where to find me
It seems like either you gave up on asking about what's the matter like Curx or you just knew its pointless to even bother

I don't even know how on earth are you supposed to describe this crap. The gal to disregard someone's emotions and importance , someone you have been with for months in intimacy.

You just up and flush it down the toilet.
Well in your case you're used to it. Not saying its a good thing to get such outcomes to get used to them but i hope you learned atleast something out of these recurrences and ANOMALIES like more vigilance and awareness of someone's characteristics.

I get being a man, you are committed to anyone who initiates affection.



Women have the ability to remove all Attention at once....
The girl I was with for over 6 months , pretty much a solid relationship, we barely had fights , good intimacy and projection of care and attention.

Out of blue of she goes back to her Home (Vacations , we were in livin) and i don't get any text or calls for a month... I tried reaching out but no luck.... She came back after vacations were over and told me she wasn't interested anymore , I just woke up one day and thought I don't need you and forget about your existence. (this is the girl who gave Me ton of reassurance and commitments)
I seriously thought she was the , We knew each other for like 3 years and started dating 6 months ago.
And I have no clue over what and why it happened.

I can't question it.
I'm not allowed to even react to this.

I'm just expected to be okay with it.


Because it's makin me the villain as I'm disturbing her with asking why and how it happened,
My very first instinct was , fuck something is wrong , we need to communicate, and sort this out. Doing this made me the bad guy ,🤷🤷

Women are unpredictable and It scary how Easily a girl can loose feeling within an instant. That's why I'm giving up on Women as a whole.

I'm definately not trying again. In This gen commitments are scam.
God... idk what has me so conceited in thinking It'll be even remotely easy to marry let alone get in a relationship (which isn't option here)

I hope you overcome that , I'm sure there many women who value the importance given to them and take that into consideration. Cliche it may be but many relationships now are shallow and immature as hell.
 

Adam 🍎

Pretty Boy
A woman will never make your life better/make you happy if you arent already good enough with yourself. Best case scenario you will be "happy" for a while but sooner or later this feeling will go away and your inner problems/insecurities etc etc will pop up again.

I get it its tough for some people,they feel lonely etc etc but you have to focus and improve yourself.

Try some sessions with a psychologist,do some work out, change your job if you hate it or if you have already a job you like you can focus more there, stop hanging around with dumb/toxic people and dont be afraid if you end up alone for a while.
Its better to be alone for a while till you find good and supportive people than have a bunch of morons around you.
I am quite literally happiest i am with myself in a long time

Working out going good, have a well paying job, my own flat, car, returned to my hobbies of writing, reading and DnD, i invested in myself and it is paying out

Yet it aint enough
 
I am quite literally happiest i am with myself in a long time

Working out going good, have a well paying job, my own flat, car, returned to my hobbies of writing, reading and DnD, i invested in myself and it is paying out

Yet it aint enough
What do you feel that you're missing exactly ? Friends ? Family ? A woman to hug you so that you can feel there is someone there for you?

I was alone and happy enough.... Until she came... Now it's a mess.
How long ago did you break up ? I know it may sound as empty words to you atm but almost all of us (men and women) have been in your place. Its tough i know that but you have to be strong and try to not get stuck in the past. Life is short and there are great things out there, its up to us to go and grab them.
 
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Cruxroux

I'm sure there many women who value the importance given to them
Sadly there isn't any.
Unlike mens , woman are Surrounded by constant attention and Validation thanks to social media and now they are addicted to it.

Give woman an option either remove Your Social media account or get into serious relationship with a Good man.

Watch her choose social media every fuckin time. And this isn't my insecurity regarding women but these women are addicted to attention.
 
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Cruxroux

How long ago did you break up ? I know it may sound as empty words to you atm but almost all of us (men and women) have been in your place. Its tough i know that but you have to be strong and try to not get stuck in the past. Life is short and there are great things out there, its up to us to go and grab them
I don't know when it happened from her side , she said she already forgot about my existence but my case , this June 23rd , and 2 weeks of constantly me trying solve this stuff out and communicate but in the end all I got from her is 50+ text of So well curated message whose whole and soul purpose was to hurt me , hurt my feelings , hurt my efforts , hurt my efforts for fixing something that I didn't even ruin.

Sentences like " I ruined you and your career , and still not feel bad about it " , " are you enjoying the fact that you're still trying " .... These are unbearable..... I lost value for myself infront of my own eye after that.
 
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Cruxroux

And how does that makes you feel ? You feel sad? angry? do you blame yourself for this "bad luck" ?
Man not gonna lie. At this point I'm way too exhausted to even be sad or angry with people.

I'm just going with the river flow like a dead fish and I don't bother to react anymore.... I sigh like 100 times in a day now... Insomnia makes it further worse...
Tired of everything , nothing is exciting anymore and even breathing feels like a burden now.
 
Man not gonna lie. At this point I'm way too exhausted to even be sad or angry with people.

I'm just going with the river flow like a dead fish and I don't bother to react anymore.... I sigh like 100 times in a day now... Insomnia makes it further worse...
Tired of everything , nothing is exciting anymore and even breathing feels like a burden now.
Are you on any meds atm ?
 
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Cruxroux

Are you on any meds atm ?
I was on sleeping pills until last week. Now they need monitor me again on how I'm behaving and how my sleep cycle is.
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Hilariously enough

The only girl currently i enjoy talking to is so because she has a mentality of a guy and doesnt give a flying fuck

She is fucking amazing
Dude
She is a guy
You're getting catfished
 
Nah man i have bunch of friends, family is good, my bro is getting married soon so yay for that

I just have shit luck with dating myself
I doubt its only a matter of luck.. You're a Christian right? Why not a Conservative

Sadly there isn't any.
Unlike mens , woman are Surrounded by constant attention and Validation thanks to social media and now they are addicted to it.

Give woman an option either remove Your Social media account or get into serious relationship with a Good man.

Watch her choose social media every fuckin time. And this isn't my insecurity regarding women but these women are addicted to attention.
Your sis gon pounce you if she ever read this 🗿

Do not loose hope just yet 😭
 
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