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Cruxroux

Shit.. Its concerning i have more hope in women than your sisteter has πŸ’€
Apparently she knows her gender better 🀷.
And it's not even about hope. It is what it is.

Try the giving same choice to a guy.... He will without a second though delete all social media... We ain't addicted to attention. 🀦
 
I was on sleeping pills until last week. Now they need monitor me again on how I'm behaving and how my sleep cycle is.
Many years ago i was in a relationship with a girl. We were together for 5 years, living together etc etc. Long story short she breaks up with from the phone while she was out of the town to go and visit her family.

For 6 months i was a mess. Quit my job, i was heavily depressed & taking meds, i left my dog at my mother's house cause i wasnt able to take care of him. For 6+ straight months i was locked in my house, eating junk food, walking around the house mumbling alone, suicide thoughts and shit like that.


Almost 10y later, here i am today, with a good job paying good money, i have my new gf (i was alone for more than 5 years straight after the said relationship), travelled around almost all Europe and things are looking good.

Let yourself mourn for the relationship you lost. Its good to cry. You dont have to "be good" and feel "amazing" in a few weeks.
It may take some time but in the end you can make it.
I'm no different than you. If i can make it so can you.
 
It gets better. (Whatever IT is)
Surrounding yourself with right people can help speed up healing.

Relationship mess
Betrayal
Death of a closed one
Backstabbing by a close person.

In my experience, men can overcome wildest of shit. Time and right people can do wonders
 
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Gorosei Informer

Hilariously enough

The only girl currently i enjoy talking to is so because she has a mentality of a guy and doesnt give a flying fuck

She is fucking amazing
Lmfao relatable. I'm good friends with a very tomboyish/masculine girl, whose a lesbian and loves carpentry and DIY. She's wicked at those and at cooking too, very talented.
She's also very funny, no nonsense, full of banter, strong and thick skinned/tough. Very down to earth and chill.
Reminds me of some of my former Female best friends.

Funnily enough I've had amazing friendships with some girls, who really cared about me as a best friend only ofc and in hindsight, I realise how truly special it was and how much I took it for granted.

I'd be fucking lying if I said I wasn't deeply attracted to them, not just on their looks either but especially their personalities. But for guys, unless genetics are extremely in your favour, its often a one-sided love.

I've seen women happily insisting on genocide of short men, making fun of them and their D sizes too. It's fucking disgusting and hypocritical. But life is full of double standards and hypocrisies too lol.

I've also befriended another girl at work whose a young mum and very pretty, no nonsense, down to earth, funny etc too. She had an extremely abusive ex and hes screwed her over regarding their kids in the worst way possible, with the backwards ass government somehow taking the side of a woman beater for some insane reason.
I know she ain't lying as ive seen similar signs of trauma from her like in myself, my mum and others who were brutally physically assaulted too.

But yeah random rambling sorry. Fuckin sucks how our feelings are constantly unrequited and even made fun of, openly rejected and even received with disgust.
 
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Cruxroux

For 6 months i was a mess. Quit my job, i was heavily depressed & taking meds, i left my dog at my mother's house cause i wasnt able to take care of him. For 6+ straight months i was locked in my house, eating junk food, walking around the house mumbling alone, suicide thoughts and shit like that.
Currently at this phase , and I would rather stay at this stage.
I'm tired of everything as. Whole. I don't have enough courage and energy put in all efforts and emotion and time and energy again.


Almost 10y later, here i am today, with a good job paying good money, i have my new gf (i was alone for more than 5 years straight after the said relationship), travelled around almost all Europe and things are looking good.
It's good but sounds exhausting to me. Even feeling good throws me into guilt of i don't deserve it.
 
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Cruxroux

Ive been through all the cliche shit that most go through. Ive been in a place where i thought absolutely nothing can help with my mental wars.
Im not going to get into details but if i hadnt gone through all the shit, i definitely wouldn't be the person i am today.
I wish everyone here the strength and drive they need to get over their battles.
🏳️🏳️🏳️
I give up.
 
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