Its just a matter of a more accurate reaction. And he had a reaction, he simply didn't looked desperate, that has never been the case. Sanji looked pretty calm and cool against Vergo as i said, and Tashigi "called" for it in a way, just like Viola was calling for help deep down in a way
Sanji is always going to bicker with Zoro way more than the necessary anyways. It's their thing
He didn’t even say her name when she fell dude. Calmly borrowing the gun and trapping a bystander is not a Sanji move.
Sanji ran into Vergo yelling how he hears a woman’s tears. How is that calm?
Sanji yelled at Wadatsumi for almost falling on Nami and was pissed off.
Sanji was ready to beat up some random samurai harassing a woman in wano.
Sanji was going to beat the shit out of Niji for hurting Collette.
Like there’s not a single moment where Sanji sees a hurt woman and thinks “that’s okay she did it to herself.”