It isn't in some aspects and in other it is."Empowered women,crazy divorce laws,dst epidemics,bastard childs,crimes.of passion...relationships aren't just flowers and candy.There are advantages to being single too.Also,sex is cheap.If they are really desperate,there is always hoes available.I think widely available porn is to blame for this too.Add in all these environmental factors making testosterone levels and libido declining too.