This will likely be the last time I respond to you on this issue. Not only am I ill recently (which has resulted in lessened patience), but I also am easily baited on this topic.

First of all. I am not the exception. If you look into the gender wage gap theory, you'll see that it does not account for hours worked and when they worked (so unsocial hours, so to speak). Furthermore, women are more likely to be paid more than their male counterpart immediately out of college for the same job with same qualifications due to affirmative actions.

As for your comment on patriarchy - no. Men kill themselves more because they are not afforded any of the social protections that women are. When looking at this sociologically, a term you enjoy, you'd likely understand the concept of "inherent worth". Women are protected and cared for more due to their ability to produce offspring and the fact that, over the course of our species, women have been protected. This has impacted us on a deep biological level.

Throw into that the feminist movement which demonises anything atypically masculine (unless it is done by women, see: girlboss movement) and considers it abusive, it is no wonder that men's self-esteem is at it's lowest in centuries. Then, let's add more onto it: The lack of charities to help mens mental health, the stigmatisation - by women - of male weakness meaning they cannot rely on their spouse or female family members for support in times of extreme duress (see the concept of "giving me the ick."). Men are held to expectations these days to be strong, stoic and responsible as they always have been, but without the respect that was afforded to them in the past. This has made men miserable as it's a zero-sum game for them.

The fact you can call this "patriarchy" is ridiculous. We live in a society where, despite the common narrative, your average heterosexual white man sits at the bottom of the social hierarchy due to intersectionality bleeding into every facet of society.

As for your comments regarding "expecting you to stay quiet." No. I don't. But at the same time, you say some of the most batshit insane stuff and people only respond to it because YOU attack them with it. I have my opinions that were formed by having a transgender identity for 8 years. For fully embracing the female role for 8 years. For fitting into society and being happy as one for 8 years. I know this stuff, and I know that's so hard for an armchair psychologist like you to understand.

You have accused me of undergoing a toxic process (likely detransition) which is demonising my decisions - so yes, you covertly do tell people how to act. I have NEVER started an argument with someone directly, nor targeted them directly without them coming for me first (see Kiku originally, who I did not argue with until she came in and started arguing with my opinions on TG). I have said my opinions and then people come in and fight me over them. I don't deny people their personal identity. I just deny that I think it exists. Within my mind, I am free to think what I do. But I am not encroaching on anybody's rights by doing this -- you are, by purposefully attacking people relentlessly when they say something you disagree with.

Fucking hell bro. I haven't even blocked Toby, and that guy and I are like water and oil, but I am one Logiko rant from just deleting you from feed, so to speak, because I cannot be bothered anymore. Get over yourself.
Beautiful text,but i believe these words have fallen on deaf ears.
 
First of all. I am not the exception. If you look into the gender wage gap theory, you'll see that it does not account for hours worked and when they worked (so unsocial hours, so to speak). Furthermore, women are more likely to be paid more than their male counterpart immediately out of college for the same job with same qualifications due to affirmative actions.

As for your comment on patriarchy - no. Men kill themselves more because they are not afforded any of the social protections that women are. When looking at this sociologically, a term you enjoy, you'd likely understand the concept of "inherent worth". Women are protected and cared for more due to their ability to produce offspring and the fact that, over the course of our species, women have been protected. This has impacted us on a deep biological level.
I won't have more discussion about the oppression of women with people who denies the patriarchy. At least for now, I'm also losing patience. If you don't want to listen to scientists who are actually making researches on the subject, then you re lost, but its not my problem.

Throw into that the feminist movement which demonises anything atypically masculine
This is strawman of the feminist movement. We don't demonises anything that is masculine. We demonize toxic behavior. If you think your behavior is being demonized, its time to change.


of male weakness meaning they cannot rely on their spouse or female family members for support in times of extreme duress
I don't know what women you frequent, but you really have a poor vision and bias vision of them. You are full of cliche


Men are held to expectations these days to be strong, stoic and responsible as they always have been, but without the respect that was afforded to them in the past. This has made men miserable as it's a zero-sum game for them.
Indeed, thanks patriarchy. bah oui mon gars, c'est exactement ça l'effet du patriarchat sur les hommes. Its well researched, mais je ne m'attends pas à ce que tu comprennes vu que tu ne daignes pas ecouter les scientifiques sur la question. (ca aura le meme effet que cette phrase)


The fact you can call this "patriarchy" is ridiculous. We live in a society where, despite the common narrative, your average heterosexual white man sits at the bottom of the social hierarchy due to intersectionality bleeding into every facet of society.
:lawsigh::lawsigh:
I won't event comment on that, that's pure ignorance and/or denial.

As for your comments regarding "expecting you to stay quiet." No. I don't. But at the same time, you say some of the most batshit insane stuff and people only respond to it because YOU attack them with it
No mate. You guys are always starting the fight. You guys are always the one starting saying hatefull and bigoted stuff. I only reply to you, don't invert the accusation here.


I have my opinions that were formed by having a transgender identity for 8 years. For fully embracing the female role for 8 years. For fitting into society and being happy as one for 8 years. I know this stuff, and I know that's so hard for an armchair psychologist like you to understand.
I do understand, and its cool that you were feeling accepted. What is less cool, is that because you forced yourself to detransition (and its cool, that was YOUR descision) you are now trying to promote that toxic idea on people.

Its no better that people trying to promote gay therapy for homosexuals, same bigoted BS.

which is demonising my decisions
Like I said, I don't care about your descision, its yours. What I care about is what you do after and what story you tell to trans people.


I don't deny people their personal identity. I just deny that I think it exists
That's the F. same if you don't keep your arguments for yourself.

Fucking hell bro. I haven't even blocked Toby, and that guy and I are like water and oil, but I am one Logiko rant from just deleting you from feed, so to speak, because I cannot be bothered anymore. Get over yourself.
Feel free to ignore me, maybe it will stop you from replying when I'm telling you to stop being a bigot.
 
If anyone should leave its you.
And lets transphobe say that trans are ill / should detransition / should seek help / Are not real ?
And lets sexist deny researches on the oppression of women and spit fallacious and false idea about the the conditions of men on earth ?
And let genocide apologizer says that bombing an entire closed off city is just a normal response ?
And let far rightist developp their propaganda on guns/religions/minorities/economy/politic ?

Sorry, I'm stayin. At least until the moderation start taking those issues seriously.
 
And lets transphobe say that trans are ill / should detransition / should seek help / Are not real ?
And lets sexist deny researches on the oppression of women and spit fallacious and false idea about the the conditions of men on earth ?
And let genocide apologizer says that bombing an entire closed off city is just a normal response ?
And let far rightist developp their propaganda on guns/religions/minorities/economy/politic ?

Sorry, I'm stayin. At least until the moderation start taking those issues seriously.
Let people say what they want, otherwise you just want to police what people say, making you getting to be no better than Nazi's etc... not the best analogy... but it's about providing a point
 
Let people say what they want, otherwise you just want to police what people say
Mate. You can't say everything you want in a society or it will lead to chaos. But keep comparing me stopping people from harming others with their words with Nazis.. you are showing me you are completely understanding the problem..
:lawsigh:
 
Mate. You can't say everything you want in a society or it will lead to chaos. But keep comparing me stopping people from harming others with their words with Nazis.. you are showing me you are completely understanding the problem..
:lawsigh:
Free to say things, but still there are consequences. Letting somebody speak their mind lets you know exactly what sort of person they are.... Then they can be judged by any each individual. So sorry you can't grasp that.
 
The weakness of men in modern day society will be it's downfall. As many rapidly attempt to feminize themselves or glorify the feminine, they allow society to wilt, desperate for masculinity.
And we are falling into masculinism here.. great.
Unexpected ? Not really..


Letting somebody speak their mind lets you know exactly what sort of person they are...
I don't have the power to stop people from talking, you must be confusing me with the mods here. I'm only here showing the consequences of their action. If you are being bigoted, don't be surprised to be called a bigot.

If you want to defend bigoted people that's on you mate..
 
And we are falling into masculinism here.. great.
Unexpected ? Not really..



I don't have the power to stop people from talking, you must be confusing me with the mods here. I'm only here showing the consequences of their action. If you are being bigoted, don't be surprised to be called a bigot.

If you want to defend bigoted people that's on you mate..
You think I'm mad at being called these names when it really doesn't bother me, these words lost their power when used so often; I liken it to the Boy who Cried Wolf.
 
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