you guys are constantly first to turn arguments to insults. I cant believe you refuse to look at how you act yourselves. I have zero ill will against you or anyone here.
Contrary to Z-Saber. I think that not everyone has a "valid" political views. There are those who fight for other people and there are those who fight to harm them, even if they don't realize it. Therefore there are people who are right and people who are wrong.
Here, the problem is that you don't realize how violent certains arguments are.
Fighting racism, sexism, fascism, transphobia, liberalism, xenophobia, antisemitism, islamophobia with violence is not illegitimate at all. Its in fact one of the best way to counter those toxic ideas.
So I do not blame people here who will sometimes choose to resort to insults against the far rights or incels like Bob. Sadly, as we live in a world were moderation staff are extra liberal/rightists, those staff won't care to take the context into account. You will therefore see aberations like the double ban of an incel profering sexist slur/death threat with someone who insult said incel because of their rethoric. Or like in my case, the double ban of a clear transphobe with the one who just choosed to not let him speak without contradiction (and without toxicity).
The problem is not really Bob. The problem is the system and it goes even beyond just this forum. The simple thought that - like I have been told - "you need to be two to banter" is a clear example of that liberalistic and toxic vision of political discourse. In reality there is most likely a person that is oppressive and one that is oppressed/know the oppressed.
Liberalism negates these simple notions of domination to hammer a vision of politic were everyones have different "valid" ideas. This is this thinking that result in liberals accepting the far right in the political debate.
This is why the fascism is rising
This is why the far right is rising
This is why toxicity is rising
If you want to be a good moderator. You need to accept to take a side and stop being a liberal.