Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?
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See women control sexual access.
People in the past get married for survival necessity, and it was a decision made up by mostly elders member of the family.
So the cultural pressure come from that aspect
It wasn't pure attraction between couples per see
Now , Marriage is Optional.
Women have better rights, educated (feminism)and able to make money so they become a lot more picky and value looks OVER anything else.
Add to the Mid women who get daily validation from army of simps in social media, her ego and self worth is massively inflated.
She see no incentive *settling* with mid guys, she rather be lonely and have occasional flings with Chads thanks to dating apps
The mentality is that * All Men will hurt you, atleast pick the Hot ones*
It's a losing battle and it's so over for a lot of guys
People in the past get married for survival necessity, and it was a decision made up by mostly elders member of the family.
So the cultural pressure come from that aspect
It wasn't pure attraction between couples per see
Now , Marriage is Optional.
Women have better rights, educated (feminism)and able to make money so they become a lot more picky and value looks OVER anything else.
Add to the Mid women who get daily validation from army of simps in social media, her ego and self worth is massively inflated.
She see no incentive *settling* with mid guys, she rather be lonely and have occasional flings with Chads thanks to dating apps
The mentality is that * All Men will hurt you, atleast pick the Hot ones*
It's a losing battle and it's so over for a lot of guys
Yes true. Everyone has a chance. EVERYONE.
I'm not, have single for 14 years.
And yet here I am, telling you that EVERYONE has a chance as long as :
- They want to
- They are a good person
Being in a relationship is not really that hard. The hard part is finding someone and some things that you can love in the other person.
Yeah, for some part, the others are single or never settle.
Not at all. What counts is how much you love and take care of yourself.
If you are incapable of loving yourself, you will NEVER find someone that can love you.
So do that first.
Long term Married people are not necessarily happy or sain with each others mate. The example here is a case of VERY BAD way to look at relationships. A way to look at relationship that highly influenced me when I was young. So its important to explain to people why its toxic for you and for others.
Yes mate. Everyone. But you have to go for it and be someone lovable.
Then you might wanna change your environment, go somewhere else, meet new people
Well, there are cases were someone toxic will be loved, love is not an exact science. But in general, if you are not toxic and lova
And here come the toxic outlook on relationship. If you start to look for relationship with the mindset that women are picky are only looking for look, you are being sexist and it will REALLY NOT help you to get someone mate.
Start to look at women with respect to start.
I'm not, have single for 14 years.
And yet here I am, telling you that EVERYONE has a chance as long as :
- They want to
- They are a good person
Being in a relationship is not really that hard. The hard part is finding someone and some things that you can love in the other person.
Yeah, for some part, the others are single or never settle.
Not at all. What counts is how much you love and take care of yourself.
If you are incapable of loving yourself, you will NEVER find someone that can love you.
So do that first.
Long term Married people are not necessarily happy or sain with each others mate. The example here is a case of VERY BAD way to look at relationships. A way to look at relationship that highly influenced me when I was young. So its important to explain to people why its toxic for you and for others.
Yes mate. Everyone. But you have to go for it and be someone lovable.
Then you might wanna change your environment, go somewhere else, meet new people
Well, there are cases were someone toxic will be loved, love is not an exact science. But in general, if you are not toxic and lova
And here come the toxic outlook on relationship. If you start to look for relationship with the mindset that women are picky are only looking for look, you are being sexist and it will REALLY NOT help you to get someone mate.
Start to look at women with respect to start.
It's why there is hope for you, my guy. 
My guy has such high demands. A rich girl or a top 10 when he's mid.
I aint 6'5 and my income isn't too brilliant. Enough to support my family on my income alone, but not six figures.
The important thing is confidence, my guy. And being reliable, a lot of the time. The only ones who demand 6'5 and a massive income are insta girls and only fans models.
Ordinary women are attracted to ordinary men.
Granted, my girl is far from ordinary. I'm just a lucky bastard who got with her when we were just leaving our teens.
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My guy has such high demands. A rich girl or a top 10 when he's mid.
I aint 6'5 and my income isn't too brilliant. Enough to support my family on my income alone, but not six figures.
The important thing is confidence, my guy. And being reliable, a lot of the time. The only ones who demand 6'5 and a massive income are insta girls and only fans models.
Ordinary women are attracted to ordinary men.
Granted, my girl is far from ordinary. I'm just a lucky bastard who got with her when we were just leaving our teens.
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I think I can answer some of his questions. I've read into the incel community, and his words are reminiscent of things on 4chan. The humiliation ritual is basically putting your heart out there, doing everything and still being rejected and treated like dirt. It happens to some men.
Unfortunately, it is kind of true that the dating market favours women. Be that as it may, a reliable guy can charm women just fine. Just have good hygiene, actually care about what she's saying (if it's actually interesting, nothing is worse than faux interest), and show that you can be there when it counts. Confidence goes a long way.
Unfortunately, most of the above, especially the latter, is something individuals within incel communities tend to lack. Not mocking them, honestly, it's a sad lot they have.
Unfortunately, it is kind of true that the dating market favours women. Be that as it may, a reliable guy can charm women just fine. Just have good hygiene, actually care about what she's saying (if it's actually interesting, nothing is worse than faux interest), and show that you can be there when it counts. Confidence goes a long way.
Unfortunately, most of the above, especially the latter, is something individuals within incel communities tend to lack. Not mocking them, honestly, it's a sad lot they have.
So this thread is back? For a moment I thought it was a new one.
Some of you are hilarious, specially @Logiko, as usual.
I'd give advice for those struggling but I think I already did so a while ago on this thread. Either way, sincere good luck with your endeavours, whatever they might be.
No advice for @Okamakama, man's already winning.
Some of you are hilarious, specially @Logiko, as usual.
I'd give advice for those struggling but I think I already did so a while ago on this thread. Either way, sincere good luck with your endeavours, whatever they might be.
No advice for @Okamakama, man's already winning.