Only if you're poor, ugly or an incel. If you're a combo of these 3 things than its sad
If you're only ugly, you can compensate by going to the gym and being someone interesting in many other ways, or having a nice amount of money, just fax (these things are going to attract different kinds of women, obviously). Actually its just a matter of making things easier or harder and/or giving you more options to choose overall, and also, you can't ask for a extremely pretty girl or rich girl when you are not on the same level in appearance or networth. Im not saying you can't have one, its possible, but by the standards of our current society, you either need to be super handsome or have money, perhaps both, lmao just look at famous football stars. As i said before, its all a matter of making things easier or harder (if not almost impossible and self humilliating to your self esteem during the process), because technically any guy can get any girl he wants, but how far will you he to go? How long will it last? At what costs? Those are the real questions that need to be made