I'm not telling you did. I'm only warning you guyz about the wording and what it implies.
Yeah exactly. Please have some common sence and read what I'm telling you. I'm not talking about those situation but the vision implied by the saying "forget yourself". When you go see someone in hospital, it's not "forgeting yourself", it's taking some time to support others.
Forgetting yourself is a REAL behavior that consist in literally forgetting yourself in a relationship thus creating a relationship of domination.
Start understanding please. I won't repeat it ten times.
People here need healthy advices, not people telling them that they should be the slave of the other person or that they must forget themselves if needed. Those are dangerous advices, especially to young women or young men who are a bit lost on relationships.
Usually, the equal way is the right way yes.
That's the thing, I have. Now instead pushing your shields up thinking that I judge the descision of your partner (which I didn't, it's her choice, it should be respected), start listening to what I say about equality in relationship and being aware of the burden of others.
No one told you the opposite. You are projecting your insecurity here, read back my comment.
I actually never judged your relationship or the choice of your partner. What I judged is your reasonning behind the fact that someone choosing something willingly means it's a good choice for that. Now, you better start reading carefully because I do not take lies like this lightly.
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Also. Just a note for some
The trad wife lifestyle couple is NOT an equal relationship.
Because what you guyz need to understand is that the financial security of women in this context depends on THE MAN. If he has a problem or decide to leave her for X reasons, she will be left alone with NOTHING, no career and thus no way to support either kids or herself.
Yeah exactly. Please have some common sence and read what I'm telling you. I'm not talking about those situation but the vision implied by the saying "forget yourself". When you go see someone in hospital, it's not "forgeting yourself", it's taking some time to support others.
Forgetting yourself is a REAL behavior that consist in literally forgetting yourself in a relationship thus creating a relationship of domination.
Start understanding please. I won't repeat it ten times.
People here need healthy advices, not people telling them that they should be the slave of the other person or that they must forget themselves if needed. Those are dangerous advices, especially to young women or young men who are a bit lost on relationships.
Usually, the equal way is the right way yes.
That's the thing, I have. Now instead pushing your shields up thinking that I judge the descision of your partner (which I didn't, it's her choice, it should be respected), start listening to what I say about equality in relationship and being aware of the burden of others.
No one told you the opposite. You are projecting your insecurity here, read back my comment.
I actually never judged your relationship or the choice of your partner. What I judged is your reasonning behind the fact that someone choosing something willingly means it's a good choice for that. Now, you better start reading carefully because I do not take lies like this lightly.
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Also. Just a note for some
The trad wife lifestyle couple is NOT an equal relationship.
Because what you guyz need to understand is that the financial security of women in this context depends on THE MAN. If he has a problem or decide to leave her for X reasons, she will be left alone with NOTHING, no career and thus no way to support either kids or herself.
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(including me)