Controversial Is dating really as hard as some people say it is?

[NicoRobinIsQueen]

Lirili Larila is such a weak mook.

Honestly, he looks strong but in reality is just a fraud, but you know who isn't? Bluberrini Octopussini, like him and tung tung tung sahur are truly something else

 

[Mathias]

Aren’t you an incel?

Can you be married and an incel at the same time ? Unless your name is Jordan Peterson, then no you cannot.

 

[EmperorKinyagi]

Honestly I think lack of in person social interaction and declining third spaces is the biggest issue and people’s dating troubles are byproduct.

Less people are having relationships and dating compared to 20 years ago (virginity at 18 has like quintupled) but it’s not like anything changed with people biologically.

 

[BoaHancocksHusband]

Honestly I think lack of in personal social interaction and declining third spaces is the biggest issue and people’s dating troubles are byproduct.

Less people are having relationships and dating compared to 20 years ago (virginity at 18 has like quintupled) but it’s not like anything changed with people biologically.

I mean my parents don't let me date or I'd bring someone home

 

[NAMELESS]

Honestly I think lack of in personal social interaction and declining third spaces is the biggest issue and people’s dating troubles are byproduct.

Less people are having relationships and dating compared to 20 years ago (virginity at 18 has like quintupled) but it’s not like anything changed with people biologically.

We are still figuring out how to balance technology and social life. Gen Z parents will probably limit the screen time of their kids. I know i will. No computers and cellphones in my kids bedrooms.

 

[Kōri no kokyū]

Lmao who tf made that tag

 

[Kiiro]

I mean my parents don't let me date or I'd bring someone home

How old are you?

 

[Toby D. Dog]

Aren’t you an incel?

 

[BoaHancocksHusband]

How old are you?

26

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Shut up

 

[Kiiro]

26

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Shut up

You are in a age which can have a partner already and make your own choices, there is a point in your life which, dont listen to your parents, they cant control you for ever.

Just do it, fall in love and go for it girl.

 

[BoaHancocksHusband]

You are in a age which can have a partner already and make your own choices, there is a point in your life which, dont listen to your parents, they cant control you for ever.

Just do it, fall in love and go for it girl.

problem is noone likes me either

 

[Kiiro]

problem is noone likes me either

Thats impossible. Just go around and you will be surprised, you also have to focus on yourself. Do some exercise and take care of yourself. Besides, you like One Piece and anime, there many people who wants a partner like that

 

[Akai2]

How am I just seeing this thread? Not the best forum to ask Dating questions on my brother @Monkey D Theories

 

[BoaHancocksHusband]

Thats impossible. Just go around and you will be surprised, you also have to focus on yourself. Do some exercise and take care of yourself. Besides, you like One Piece and anime, there many people who wants a partner like that

im not even that blackpilled anymore im jus tryna piss off @Toby D. Dog now lol

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I’ve seen a lot of people talk about how dating is so hard nowadays, but idk. I can’t help but wonder if that’s more to do with the person than society as a whole.

I think if you want to get married, that can’t be that difficult. You just find someone who is good enough and you make it work. My family is from india and most of these people had arranged marriages. That’s how I presume their relationships went down.

I think people who are struggling with dating probably aren’t thinking about it in these terms. I think a lot of people, myself included, have gotten too caught up in thinking of relationships as more than what they are: a means to an end.

I want to start a family with someone to carry on my ancestors’ genetic line. I only have so much time to do it(even as a man). Hence you can only kick the bucket down the road for so long, and eventually you just need to buckle down and make something work to accomplish your goals. Even if the person you choose doesn’t match all your fantasies, or isn’t everything you wanted in a partner.

india is tutorial mode

 

[Midnight Delight]

Incel thread

 

[Toby D. Dog]

im not even that blackpilled anymore im jus tryna piss off @Toby D. Dog now lol

Dude, get a life. Not even a dig at this point.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Self confidence is the key to all . Woman love a guy who looks after himself you don’t necessarily need to have hot shot job to land a woman .

Unfortunately this is hard truth in dating game . People will judge your looks , behaviour . I would suggest joining some hobby classes you would meet lot of ladies and that’s how you start to talk to them .

 

[BoaHancocksHusband]

Dude, get a life. Not even a dig at this point.

Notice how no one was speaking to you

 

[EmperorKinyagi]

Self confidence is the key to all . Woman love a guy who looks after himself you don’t necessarily need to have hot shot job to land a woman .

Unfortunately this is hard truth in dating game . People will judge your looks , behaviour . I would suggest joining some hobby classes you would meet lot of ladies and that’s how you start to talk to them .

I actually disagree that “confidence” matters as an attitude or trait, I think confidence more so matters as just putting yourself out there in the first place.

Just reflecting on my own experience. I think people think “confidence” means acting a certain way when it really just means having initiative and putting yourself out there.

 

[Midnight Delight]

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