General Relationship Discussion
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The first and last I had a girlfriend I was 8yo. I can't even remember her face or her name...
My first one found someone else when I lost contact with her for a while. It was honestly for the best when she became a Paimon follower.
My relationship was pretty much one sided. Back when I was in middle school and in high school I had a crush on one of my friends and I even confessed my love for him but he never returned back my feelings and after that we lost touch with each other and he went to a different school.
Around 4-5 years later I heard my friend left the military and he called me saying he wanted us to get back together and we started a short relationship but back then during the years when we lost touch with each other, I lost my feelings for him and I wasn't able to return back my feelings for him when we got back together and I ended up having to end the relationship because I grew out of my middle-high school crush on him. Last time I heard back from him was around 2 years ago he wanted to know how I was doing saying he still thinks about me and I remember he said he was engaged with someone.
Around 4-5 years later I heard my friend left the military and he called me saying he wanted us to get back together and we started a short relationship but back then during the years when we lost touch with each other, I lost my feelings for him and I wasn't able to return back my feelings for him when we got back together and I ended up having to end the relationship because I grew out of my middle-high school crush on him. Last time I heard back from him was around 2 years ago he wanted to know how I was doing saying he still thinks about me and I remember he said he was engaged with someone.
Lost my one and only because I had commitment issues. Working on my self now
Ouch.
There is always that time when no one returns their feelings when it was there. In due time, those feelings will not remain for someone forever, so I can't blame you in this situation. It was like that for my first crush as explained earlier. She coincidentally found me on Facebook to be friends again when I was in college despite being in a new relationship herself. Of course I've moved on, but still chose to remain friends with her ever since. Even asking for advice regarding the country life when hiking and hunter were never my thing.
I have a girl or two who we call my slaves (unsure if it's 1 or 2 cuz I haven't talked to one in a while), I'm both poly and mono, it just about when and where.
Um, I haven't been spending a lot of time with them lately though.
Kind of wish I had a femboy or two to bang.
The last relationship I've been in where I had actual feelings for the person was a cute cosplay girl I dated in like february, not to be mistaken with the cosplay girl i dated after that cuz our kinks lined up and I wanted to bang. (don't worry, she was aware)
Where are all the cute artist/cosplay/alt femboys?
Um, kind of have a crush on a few cosplay friends, I'm generally attracted to like 90% of my friends, they are god damn cuties, but I don't want them sexually or romantically because I'm not a weird incel.
If you're going to be polymerous, EVERYONE should know, and everyone should consent. If they aren't okay with it, cut the romantic/sexual relationship and don't be rapey by trying to pressure them into it, it's not for everyone. Also don't do that thing where you go onto bumble or tinder as a couple asking for girls to fuck you and using your girlfriend as pretty much bait, that's weird, you're creepy, stop doing that.
Um, I haven't been spending a lot of time with them lately though.
Kind of wish I had a femboy or two to bang.
The last relationship I've been in where I had actual feelings for the person was a cute cosplay girl I dated in like february, not to be mistaken with the cosplay girl i dated after that cuz our kinks lined up and I wanted to bang. (don't worry, she was aware)
Where are all the cute artist/cosplay/alt femboys?
Um, kind of have a crush on a few cosplay friends, I'm generally attracted to like 90% of my friends, they are god damn cuties, but I don't want them sexually or romantically because I'm not a weird incel.
If you're going to be polymerous, EVERYONE should know, and everyone should consent. If they aren't okay with it, cut the romantic/sexual relationship and don't be rapey by trying to pressure them into it, it's not for everyone. Also don't do that thing where you go onto bumble or tinder as a couple asking for girls to fuck you and using your girlfriend as pretty much bait, that's weird, you're creepy, stop doing that.
Just a quick update, I finally decided to break up with my own girlfriend. Unfortunately, how I handled the situation was bad. An important lesson is to be calm when you tell your partner that you want to end a relationship and give clear reasons why you want it to end. Don’t be like me and let anger swallow you completely when breaking up with someone. Or else they will share that same s
In the end, we both apologized to each other, while admitting the eight months we had were good while it lasted. Given one girl in my workplace has a crush on me, it was for the best to avoid any jealousy issues. I’ve decided to reach out to her more often just to see how genuine her feelings are for me. Also, seeing how well a second relationship goes.
You are person to ever admit being in a poly relationship or give advice relating to it. Great advice on the subject I’d say.
In the end, we both apologized to each other, while admitting the eight months we had were good while it lasted. Given one girl in my workplace has a crush on me, it was for the best to avoid any jealousy issues. I’ve decided to reach out to her more often just to see how genuine her feelings are for me. Also, seeing how well a second relationship goes.
You are person to ever admit being in a poly relationship or give advice relating to it. Great advice on the subject I’d say.
Are a lot of you still in high school or something, or have you just been with your first girlfriend/boyfriend for years, because like, I'm not trying to show off, cuz it's not that impressive, humans want to date each other, but I've dated like over 50 people over the last 10 years alone (though I only dated like 7 people before then)
Not trying to insult anyone, maybe you just have trouble walking up to girls/boys, just try it if that's you.
Not trying to insult anyone, maybe you just have trouble walking up to girls/boys, just try it if that's you.
Wait, are you poly-shaming? Or are you gay-shaming? Sorry I'm not a good christian boy in a nuclear family who disowns my trans kids. (I don't have kids btw, and don't want them)
There are genuinely people excusing the attack on the Capitol here and justifying it, yet me being a gay bisexual requires psychological support? Homie, everyone is consenting, don't be jealous or weird.
Tell me what you find wrong with my post, is it me being bi, or me being occasionally poly?
Edit: Talk about me being rude, when you're literally saying I need a doctor for being gay or the type of relationships I have with consensual adults.
There are genuinely people excusing the attack on the Capitol here and justifying it, yet me being a gay bisexual requires psychological support? Homie, everyone is consenting, don't be jealous or weird.
Tell me what you find wrong with my post, is it me being bi, or me being occasionally poly?
Edit: Talk about me being rude, when you're literally saying I need a doctor for being gay or the type of relationships I have with consensual adults.
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When you are overweight, many look down on you and almost never give you a chance. Like you are pressured to just have this celebrity level physique to be worthy to them.
I’ll have you know that I had crushes in high school and college, gotten ignored at best or rejected at worst. Doing the direct approach to any lady in the city barely helped either.
The fact that anyone suddenly finds me attractive in my work factory after deciding to shave 26 years later is just a major mindblow on my end.
I’ll have you know that I had crushes in high school and college, gotten ignored at best or rejected at worst. Doing the direct approach to any lady in the city barely helped either.
The fact that anyone suddenly finds me attractive in my work factory after deciding to shave 26 years later is just a major mindblow on my end.
That's all self doubt, I taught an ex friend who unfriended me when he found out I was bisexual (despite me helping him with like 300 things including training him up socially and physically in martial arts) how to talk to girls and be socially confident, and he was pulling more girls than his other friends who were in better shape than he was. Obviously girls like femboy gorgeous boys, but 99% of girls will date a guy based on personality type. I'm not going to say you're disadvantaged or something, but you can easily get at least basic relationships, evne if htey're not going to be 19 year old girls with onlyfans or something.
You were better off admitting your attachment for them than you would have been if you completely said nothing. Keep in mind how you say it is just as important as saying it, have some confidence, be relaxed or playful with it, don't treat it like an anime confession of 12 year olds during valentines day.
Get some hobbies, go out and do stuff that you like to do, meet people via that, and let things flow naturally until you say you're attracted to them or want to take them out.
Are you a parody account because you were also the one who talked about not wanting trans people in your country, or are these your actual realities?
Ah yes, everyone like Al-Sama's either kink shaming, homophobia, and/or poly shaming.
That makes you guys look good.
You were better off admitting your attachment for them than you would have been if you completely said nothing. Keep in mind how you say it is just as important as saying it, have some confidence, be relaxed or playful with it, don't treat it like an anime confession of 12 year olds during valentines day.
Get some hobbies, go out and do stuff that you like to do, meet people via that, and let things flow naturally until you say you're attracted to them or want to take them out.
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Are you a parody account because you were also the one who talked about not wanting trans people in your country, or are these your actual realities?
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Ah yes, everyone like Al-Sama's either kink shaming, homophobia, and/or poly shaming.
That makes you guys look good.
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If only I could had learned this long ago. I’ve done things like join bowling teams and attend art clubs with little success. But that’s all in the past.
I met my first date (first ex) from online dating. We tried to make the most of it for eight months, but realized we were just not a good match in any way. Reminder that both of us were in similar weight classes and interests.
This new girl I’m giving a chance just happens to work at the same job as me. I didn’t want to trust her at first because of a past experience where a similar pair of women told me “So so has a crush on you” as a way to mess with my emotions. Sitting down and talking with said girl gave me some reassurance that I was only being too overly cautious. Certain factors like another coworker trying to put together and her sister acting as her mouthpiece didn’t really help.
But here we are, we will try talking as the days go by. Personally, people being pushy and invasive about the idea of us dating is honestly strange. There’s helping and then there’s being a pest. People who act like they are matchmakers while also talking between two unwilling parties are a little suspect. Can’t blame me for thinking there’s something behind their motives.
I met my first date (first ex) from online dating. We tried to make the most of it for eight months, but realized we were just not a good match in any way. Reminder that both of us were in similar weight classes and interests.
This new girl I’m giving a chance just happens to work at the same job as me. I didn’t want to trust her at first because of a past experience where a similar pair of women told me “So so has a crush on you” as a way to mess with my emotions. Sitting down and talking with said girl gave me some reassurance that I was only being too overly cautious. Certain factors like another coworker trying to put together and her sister acting as her mouthpiece didn’t really help.
But here we are, we will try talking as the days go by. Personally, people being pushy and invasive about the idea of us dating is honestly strange. There’s helping and then there’s being a pest. People who act like they are matchmakers while also talking between two unwilling parties are a little suspect. Can’t blame me for thinking there’s something behind their motives.