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Shuyaku

#81
Are a lot of you still in high school or something, or have you just been with your first girlfriend/boyfriend for years, because like, I'm not trying to show off, cuz it's not that impressive, humans want to date each other, but I've dated like over 50 people over the last 10 years alone (though I only dated like 7 people before then)

Not trying to insult anyone, maybe you just have trouble walking up to girls/boys, just try it if that's you.
I can't believe you thought it was a good idea to embarass yourself like this.
 

AL sama

Red Haired
#82
Wait, are you poly-shaming? Or are you gay-shaming? Sorry I'm not a good christian boy in a nuclear family who disowns my trans kids. (I don't have kids btw, and don't want them)

There are genuinely people excusing the attack on the Capitol here and justifying it, yet me being a gay bisexual requires psychological support? Homie, everyone is consenting, don't be jealous or weird.

Tell me what you find wrong with my post, is it me being bi, or me being occasionally poly?

Edit: Talk about me being rude, when you're literally saying I need a doctor for being gay or the type of relationships I have with consensual adults.
I still insist that you need doctor

being gay or lesbian is perfectly fine

however treating people as slaves surely isn't

if you still didn't get it then so be it
 
#83
If only I could had learned this long ago. I’ve done things like join bowling teams and attend art clubs with little success. But that’s all in the past.

I met my first date (first ex) from online dating. We tried to make the most of it for eight months, but realized we were just not a good match in any way. Reminder that both of us were in similar weight classes and interests.

This new girl I’m giving a chance just happens to work at the same job as me. I didn’t want to trust her at first because of a past experience where a similar pair of women told me “So so has a crush on you” as a way to mess with my emotions. Sitting down and talking with said girl gave me some reassurance that I was only being too overly cautious. Certain factors like another coworker trying to put together and her sister acting as her mouthpiece didn’t really help.

But here we are, we will try talking as the days go by. Personally, people being pushy and invasive about the idea of us dating is honestly strange. There’s helping and then there’s being a pest. People who act like they are matchmakers while also talking between two unwilling parties are a little suspect. Can’t blame me for thinking there’s something behind their motives.
Girls are typically subs and want the guy to take charge, there is nothing wrong with a guy being a sub/introvert, but it makes dating girls a bit harder due to it. It's the whole gender roles that society dictate. It's like striking oil for a person like me, but luckily for everyone, sub boys and dom girls are becoming my socially accepted, so are introverted boys and extroverted girls. I know I've had a few female friends hit on me outright or say they wouldn't mind having sex with me. (I deny the latter cuz I don't really 1 night stand anymore), and at some point I imagine that a lot of the type of girls who say liked you, will tell their crush that they like them as it becomes more socially acceptable and the youth break out of social norms. Heck, I've seen female friends mention pegging and putting guys in maid outfits more now, than ever in my life. (though I guess cosplayers/anime people are a bit more kink that most)
I can't believe you thought it was a good idea to embarass yourself like this.
Your post has literally no relation to what I posted, try again, also spellcheck embarrass. At best I'm slightly out of touch because I have attractive/charisma privilege, and it's harder for other people to find people to date. Or are you shaming me becuase I've been with a lot of partners?
I still insist that you need doctor

being gay or lesbian is perfectly fine

however treating people as slaves surely isn't

if you still didn't get it then so be it
So you're kink shaming, niceeeeee.

You act like I've got a cotton farm in my backyard or something, it's literally just like: (using anime pic to not be too lewd)

With commands, bdsm, a bit of sadism, some power play, private or public humiliations, etc.

Cute how you guys complain when I call people out for justifying coups to overthrow democratic election results, but you are here saying I need therapy and stuff for having something as harmless as a kink that is consensual. I also am into cucking my s/o's (consensually), why don't you kink shame me for that too, vanilla ass people.

Seriously, the admins and mods are such hypocrites, there is a guy who literally said he's pedoing some girl in this thread and you're complaining about me putting a leash on some goth cosplay girl and having her beg for me. Weak asf.

Don't kink shame people if it's a victimless kink, especially not if you're going to say people need a therapist or something cuz of it, like they have mental issues.

Inb4 I awakened a new kink of yours.
 
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AL sama

Red Haired
#84
So you're kink shaming, niceeeeee.

You act like I've got a cotton farm in my backyard or something, it's literally just like: (using anime pic to not be too lewd)
With commands, bdsm, a bit of sadism, some power play, etc.

Cute how you guys complain when I call people out for justifying coups to overthrow democratic election results, but you are here saying I need therapy and stuff for having something as harmless as a kink that is consensual. I also am into cucking my s/o's (consensually), why don't you kink shame me for that too, vanilla ass people.

Seriously, the admins and mods are such hypocrites, there is a guy who literally said he's pedoing some girl in this thread and you're complaining about me putting a leash on some goth cosplay girl and having her beg for me. Weak asf.

Don't kink shame people if it's a victimless kink, especially not if you're going to say people need a therapist or something cuz of it, like they have mental issues.

Inb4 I awakened a new kink of yours.
just answer a simple thing

is treating people as slaves ok in your eyes??
 
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Shuyaku

#85
Your post has literally no relation to what I posted, try again, also spellcheck embarrass. At best I'm slightly out of touch because I have attractive/charisma privilege, and it's harder for other people to find people to date. Or are you shaming me becuase I've been with a lot of partners?
Couldn't care less what side you swing on or how many STDs you got, don't you think it's a little bit cringy to tell people how many partners you've had ? Coupled with your smug anime avy making shit worse. Are you a functioning adult ?
 
#86
Girls are typically subs and want the guy to take charge, there is nothing wrong with a guy being a sub/introvert, but it makes dating girls a bit harder due to it. It's the whole gender roles that society dictate. It's like striking oil for a person like me, but luckily for everyone, sub boys and dom girls are becoming my socially accepted, so are introverted boys and extroverted girls. I know I've had a few female friends hit on me outright or say they wouldn't mind having sex with me. (I deny the latter cuz I don't really 1 night stand anymore), and at some point I imagine that a lot of the type of girls who say liked you, will tell their crush that they like them as it becomes more socially acceptable and the youth break out of social norms. Heck, I've seen female friends mention pegging and putting guys in maid outfits more now, than ever in my life. (though I guess cosplayers/anime people are a bit more kink that most)

Your post has literally no relation to what I posted, try again, also spellcheck embarrass. At best I'm slightly out of touch because I have attractive/charisma privilege, and it's harder for other people to find people to date. Or are you shaming me becuase I've been with a lot of partners?

So you're kink shaming, niceeeeee.

You act like I've got a cotton farm in my backyard or something, it's literally just like: (using anime pic to not be too lewd)

With commands, bdsm, a bit of sadism, some power play, private or public humiliations, etc.

Cute how you guys complain when I call people out for justifying coups to overthrow democratic election results, but you are here saying I need therapy and stuff for having something as harmless as a kink that is consensual. I also am into cucking my s/o's (consensually), why don't you kink shame me for that too, vanilla ass people.

Seriously, the admins and mods are such hypocrites, there is a guy who literally said he's pedoing some girl in this thread and you're complaining about me putting a leash on some goth cosplay girl and having her beg for me. Weak asf.

Don't kink shame people if it's a victimless kink, especially not if you're going to say people need a therapist or something cuz of it, like they have mental issues.

Inb4 I awakened a new kink of yours.
you embarrass yourself more with every post :lawsigh:
 
#87
just answer a simple thing

is treating people as slaves ok in your eyes??
If it's within the context of S&M kinks yeah, if it's within the confines of non consensual slavery, then no.

That's such a weak gotcha, slapping someone's ass is only okay if they are consensual of it, this isn't even some gray area where it's "do this or you can't survive" like a job in capitalism, you're just kink shaming in a pretty asshole way. Do you have a problem with bdsm in general, cuz bdsm is like, the most vanilla kink in existence, and involves tying people up so they can't escape, which is atrocious if there isn't consent, but if there is consent, it's fine. If you have sex with someone, it's fine, but if it's not consenting, it's not fine. It's kind of common ass shit. So spare me the idpol crap about how offended you are that I go harder than you, especailly considering you turn a blind eye to genuinely atrocious people who are still marching around these forums today even.
Couldn't care less what side you swing on or how many STDs you got, don't you think it's a little bit cringy to tell people how many partners you've had ? Coupled with your smug anime avy making shit worse. Are you a functioning adult ?
But apparently you do, cuz here you are. 50-100 isn't impressive if you're in your mid 20's and aren't introverted or an outright incel. You just date someone, feel emotions for them, then things die off after a few weeks. My pp is clean btw, disease free.
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you embarrass yourself more with every post :lawsigh:
This is why cheating is so common, their partners are so vanilla. Sorry I'm emotionally open with myself and others, but yeah, that's actually a positive trait.
 

Uncle Van

Bullets don't hurt. But Taxes do.
#88
Are a lot of you still in high school or something, or have you just been with your first girlfriend/boyfriend for years, because like, I'm not trying to show off, cuz it's not that impressive, humans want to date each other, but I've dated like over 50 people over the last 10 years alone (though I only dated like 7 people before then)

Not trying to insult anyone, maybe you just have trouble walking up to
Girls are typically subs and want the guy to take charge, there is nothing wrong with a guy being a sub/introvert, but it makes dating girls a bit harder due to it. It's the whole gender roles that society dictate. It's like striking oil for a person like me, but luckily for everyone, sub boys and dom girls are becoming my socially accepted, so are introverted boys and extroverted girls. I know I've had a few female friends hit on me outright or say they wouldn't mind having sex with me. (I deny the latter cuz I don't really 1 night stand anymore), and at some point I imagine that a lot of the type of girls who say liked you, will tell their crush that they like them as it becomes more socially acceptable and the youth break out of social norms. Heck, I've seen female friends mention pegging and putting guys in maid outfits more now, than ever in my life. (though I guess cosplayers/anime people are a bit more kink that most)

Your post has literally no relation to what I posted, try again, also spellcheck embarrass. At best I'm slightly out of touch because I have attractive/charisma privilege, and it's harder for other people to find people to date. Or are you shaming me becuase I've been with a lot of partners?

So you're kink shaming, niceeeeee.

You act like I've got a cotton farm in my backyard or something, it's literally just like: (using anime pic to not be too lewd)

With commands, bdsm, a bit of sadism, some power play, private or public humiliations, etc.

Cute how you guys complain when I call people out for justifying coups to overthrow democratic election results, but you are here saying I need therapy and stuff for having something as harmless as a kink that is consensual. I also am into cucking my s/o's (consensually), why don't you kink shame me for that too, vanilla ass people.

Seriously, the admins and mods are such hypocrites, there is a guy who literally said he's pedoing some girl in this thread and you're complaining about me putting a leash on some goth cosplay girl and having her beg for me. Weak asf.

Don't kink shame people if it's a victimless kink, especially not if you're going to say people need a therapist or something cuz of it, like they have mental issues.

Inb4 I awakened a new kink of yours.
At best you're incredibly obnoxious and constantly brags about how great you are while insulting others for not being you. When someone calls you out on your behavior you instantly call them a nazi/racist/homophobe thinking that it makes you look good somehow.
 
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Shuyaku

#89
But apparently you do, cuz here you are. 50-100 isn't impressive if you're in your mid 20's and aren't introverted or an outright incel. You just date someone, feel emotions for them, then things die off after a few weeks. My pp is clean btw, disease free.
Yes i care, about you making yourself look like an idiot, like i said. You have such a sweked perception of reality it's not even funny, please learn what an introverted person is.
 
#93
At worst you're incredibly obnoxious and constantly brags about how great you are while insulting others for not being you. When someone calls you out on your behavior you instantly call them a nazi/racist/homophobe thinking that it makes you look good somehow.
Are you fucking kidding me? I said my kink, then Al-Sama rushed in here like a puritan white mom complaining about how disgusting I am for my kinks and how I need psychological help for honestly, pretty basic kinks. Hypocrites all over, you're going to ignore the fact that AL-Sama literally went full cancerous by insulting me for my kinks while you're going to shame me for not being nice with people justifying the coup attempt in the Capitol. At least stay consistent, at worst I'm a smug boi, but I'm not the problem here, the person who said I am a psychopath or something for having a pretty basic asf kink is, but you'll pretend he is fine cuz like cops, admins/mods let each other do wahtever they want, no matter how hypocritical or kind of f'd it is.

When he kink shamed me, I said he either had a problem with my sexuality, or he had a problem with what I choose to do with consenting adults in bed. I was right, he was kink shaming me, but yes, pretend I AM the problem here.

Sorry I call people who defend neo nazis and confederates trying to start a coup in the Capitol neo nazis or confederates.
Sorry I call the kink shamer a kink shamer, when he's actively kink shaming me, for everyone to see.

Damn, I am right so often that I should get a medal.
 

AL sama

Red Haired
#95
If it's within the context of S&M kinks yeah, if it's within the confines of non consensual slavery, then no.

That's such a weak gotcha, slapping someone's ass is only okay if they are consensual of it, this isn't even some gray area where it's "do this or you can't survive" like a job in capitalism, you're just kink shaming in a pretty asshole way. Do you have a problem with bdsm in general, cuz bdsm is like, the most vanilla kink in existence, and involves tying people up so they can't escape, which is atrocious if there isn't consent, but if there is consent, it's fine. If you have sex with someone, it's fine, but if it's not consenting, it's not fine. It's kind of common ass shit. So spare me the idpol crap about how offended you are that I go harder than you, especailly considering you turn a blind eye to genuinely atrocious people who are still marching around these forums today even.
one more question

are you legally allowed to be poly??
 
#96
Are you fucking kidding me? I said my kink, then Al-Sama rushed in here like a puritan white mom complaining about how disgusting I am for my kinks and how I need psychological help for honestly, pretty basic kinks. Hypocrites all over, you're going to ignore the fact that AL-Sama literally went full cancerous by insulting me for my kinks while you're going to shame me for not being nice with people justifying the coup attempt in the Capitol. At least stay consistent, at worst I'm a smug boi, but I'm not the problem here, the person who said I am a psychopath or something for having a pretty basic asf kink is, but you'll pretend he is fine cuz like cops, admins/mods let each other do wahtever they want, no matter how hypocritical or kind of f'd it is.

When he kink shamed me, I said he either had a problem with my sexuality, or he had a problem with what I choose to do with consenting adults in bed. I was right, he was kink shaming me, but yes, pretend I AM the problem here.
don't like the mods and admins? leave and hop on somewhere else
 

Uncle Van

Bullets don't hurt. But Taxes do.
#99
Are you fucking kidding me? I said my kink, then Al-Sama rushed in here like a puritan white mom complaining about how disgusting I am for my kinks and how I need psychological help for honestly, pretty basic kinks. Hypocrites all over, you're going to ignore the fact that AL-Sama literally went full cancerous by insulting me for my kinks while you're going to shame me for not being nice with people justifying the coup attempt in the Capitol. At least stay consistent, at worst I'm a smug boi, but I'm not the problem here, the person who said I am a psychopath or something for having a pretty basic asf kink is, but you'll pretend he is fine cuz like cops, admins/mods let each other do wahtever they want, no matter how hypocritical or kind of f'd it is.
First step is to not be a self righteous hypocrite and learn respect. Until then you can't be taken seriously.

AL, like everyone else, was talking about your behavior which is so detached from reality that you insult everyone 24/7 for dating not to like your wild stories and disrespectful attitude.
 
First step is to not be a self righteous hypocrite and learn respect. Until then you can't be taken seriously.

AL, like everyone else, was talking about your behavior which is so detached from reality that you insult everyone 24/7 for dating not to like your wild stories and disrespectful attitude.
Respect people justifying a terrorist attack? Respect the person who said I need therapy while kink shaming me?

I don't respect assholes.

Al wasn't in disbelief of what I do, al was kink shaming me, stop gaslighting me to cope for the fact that your moderator friend is out here kink shaming people.

I don't take you or Al seriously, you're justifying hate speech, he's kink shaming people.

Sorry I disrespect people who justify terrorist attacks and people who attack me for my sexual preferences (Consensual ones)?????

There is literally a guy who says he is pedoing a 16 year old in this thread and I'm the problem? Gotcha.
 
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