Do dating apps really work?

#41
It works if you really good looking.


I prefer in real Life though.

So that they can feel my aura
lmao

what aura
Post automatically merged:

This is true, it'd only delay the inevitable for me since I just am not that great with people in general. Hard to strike conversations with complete strangers usually
dont strike convos with strangers with the intention to date right away. That may happen online but would be very awkward irl.
Ideally you meet people through events, clubs, mutual interest group , maybe even commuting from work and they bump into you .
Just have a casual chat
take off this mindset of talking to someone with the pressure of trying to date right away, see it as growing your social circle.

ofc There is a difference between being friend and a potential romantic partner but you need to get a sense of who they are and likewise they do too. learning how to balance this and being just another friend /acquaintance only comes with experience. I say this all the time but women who like you will make it very easy for you.
 
Last edited:
#42
It's up to you.

Complimenting the looks is risky. Often seems too straightforward but I'm not saying that it doesn't work.

Jokes are always the best. But try to introduce yourself at some point too.

WORK ON YOUR JOKES.



Tip of the day : Even talking about trivial things such as weather for a moment isn't bad. It can help you feel the mood of the person, if he/she is open for a conversation for instance. You don't have to say fantastic stuff.


Send me money and I'll give more feet pics tips :)
Another tip, rejection is part of the game. Don't make a big deal out of it. He/she has his/her preferences and you do too, so if she/he is not interested, just move on.
 
#44
The issue is though - now you have a whole group of men who are now without any partners; the male loneliness problem is rampant right now. So while women do have the prerogative to wait for the eights, it just means that an entire group of men are getting cut out. This unfortunately leads to the whole incel movement.
It burns everyone eventually. Men are just first, women get burned with a delay. Women, by nature, has an easier time pulling men when they are young. So they get to date the high value men, even though most won't get to keep them. They will get burned too, just after 35-40.

Thankfully I'm from a country where the abomination called "dating" or hookup culture isn't prevalent (yet).
 
#46
lmao

what aura
Post automatically merged:


dont strike convos with strangers with the intention to date right away. That may happen online but would be very awkward irl.
Ideally you meet people through events, clubs, mutual interest group , maybe even commuting from work and they bump into you .
Just have a casual chat
take off this mindset of talking to someone with the pressure of trying to date right away, see it as growing your social circle.

ofc There is a difference between being friend and a potential romantic partner but you need to get a sense of who they are and likewise they do too. learning how to balance this and being just another friend /acquaintance only comes with experience. I say this all the time but women who like you will make it very easy for you.
Just to clarify I'm not saying I'm trying to date someone off the bat I just want to befriend them first
If that evolves into dating eventually then it's alright with me although I don't even know if I'm mentally able to date right now
I just want to at least be able to chat with people and be friends with them and what not
Another tip, rejection is part of the game. Don't make a big deal out of it. He/she has his/her preferences and you do too, so if she/he is not interested, just move on.
I know, thanks
 
#47
Just to clarify I'm not saying I'm trying to date someone off the bat I just want to befriend them first
If that evolves into dating eventually then it's alright with me although I don't even know if I'm mentally able to date right now
I just want to at least be able to chat with people and be friends with them and what not
If you want to befriend someone then you'll be just that, a friend, unless that someone is as desperate as you are.
It won't evolve to something else. This is not When Harry met Sally.
 
Top