Controversial General Political Discussion

[Gol D. Roger]

So we're now at a stage where parents being proud of their kids is seen as toxic. I guess we're running out of ideas to complain about.

 

[Seatonnes]

So we're now at a stage where parents being proud of their kids is seen as toxic. I guess we're running out of ideas to complain about.

I OWN YOU

 

[Carrota Guco]

i mean i'm already past that point kinda.
It wasn't worth it.
Better just live for the moment and enjoy the time you have left.
Nobody will thank you for ruining your own health.
only when you turn into a useless cripple you will know who truly cares about you.

oftentimes family doesn't give a shit about your health.
They want you to have good grades+ high paying job so they can brag about you before their relatives/friends.
"omg look MY child did this,MY child is so successful, look at MY child MY child ,MY child ,and did i mention that's MY child?!?

WORSHIP ME
LOVE ME
RESPECT ME
..erm I mean MY child"

If you're pass that point then it doesn't apply to you. Not everyone is the favorite child and expect no one to care otherwise.

 

[Bisoromi Bear]

expect no one to care otherwise.

I don't

I don't have any expectation anymore.
I live every day as if it's my last

 

[Photon]

Its funny how Parents are great if child achieves something under pressure and it's the kid who's worst he doesn't achieve anything.

I agree with the latter, kids reflect what their parents teach them tho we still have to acknowledge sometimes environment play a role to some extent. I disagree with the former, teaching kids how to work under pressure is a necessity

 

[AL sama]

bruh really parents being proud about their kids is a problem now??

seriously what's wrong with people??

 

[K!NG HARA$H!MA]

bruh really parents being proud about their kids is a problem now??

seriously what's wrong with people??

It's more like Parents is forcing kids to do things that can them proud and the kids too

I guess if you're loser that can't live up to their expectations then just confess it I guess
They're not gonna disown you or something but will look you down especially since they heavily invested on you

 

[AL sama]

It's more like Parents is forcing kids to do things that can them proud and the kids too

I guess if you're loser that can't live up to their expectations then just confess it I guess
They're not gonna disown you or something but will look you down especially since they heavily invested on you

it varies family to family

I did nothing in my life that can make my parents proud but they're still very proud of me

 

[K!NG HARA$H!MA]

Though, it's interesting how the siblings rivalry manifest even in later age

Especially when your sibling is extremely successful and you're not.
Parents , society etc will look you down because you're not reaching the standard your sibling set

 

[Cruxroux]

Though, it's interesting how the siblings rivalry manifest even in later age

Especially when your sibling is extremely successful and you're not.
Parents , society etc will look you down because you're not reaching the standard your sibling set

Living under their shadow is even worse.
Though i got Very good Relation with my sister. Yet she's is some extent the reason why I avoid family gatherings.

 

[K!NG HARA$H!MA]

Living under their shadow is even worse.
Though i got Very good Relation with my sister. Yet she's is some extent the reason why I avoid family gatherings.

Do you always get compared with your sister?

 

[Cruxroux]

Do you always get compared with your sister?

Worse I'm invisible.
They couldn't care less whether I exist or not. Everything is about her somehow.

 

[NikaInParis]

I did nothing in my life that can make my parents proud but they're still very proud of me

Relatable

 

[K!NG HARA$H!MA]

Worse I'm invisible.
They couldn't care less whether I exist or not. Everything is about her somehow.

Turn out overshadowed can also be literal

 

[AL sama]

Though, it's interesting how the siblings rivalry manifest even in later age

Especially when your sibling is extremely successful and you're not.
Parents , society etc will look you down because you're not reaching the standard your sibling set

even this varies family to family

my brother is like my best friend and my own child

 

[K!NG HARA$H!MA]

even this varies family to family

my brother is like my best friend and my own child

Own child? Sounds like big age gap

I'm referring to people who have siblings around the same age and where they can't reach the level of their successful siblings

 

[Adam 🍎]

I'm referring to people who have siblings around the same age and where they can't reach the level of their successful siblings

My mom favours my sister more than my bro and me. She favours her so much she was willing to pay her college in a coastal city 800km away while i was forbbiden to go to a city 200 km away

 

[Peroroncino]

My mom favours my sister more than my bro and me. She favours her so much she was willing to pay her college in a coastal city 800km away while i was forbbiden to go to a city 200 km away

Sisters always get favouritism

 

[Adam 🍎]

Sisters always get favouritism

My sis doesbt really like it. For all our differences between my sis and my bro we still get along superbly well.

We even decided to buy a mountain cottage together so that we can go chill therr whenever

 

[AL sama]

Own child? Sounds like big age gap

I'm referring to people who have siblings around the same age and where they can't reach the level of their successful siblings

9 years isn't that big of a gap but yeah