The problem is today's culture of victimhood trying to remove accountability and boundaries. It tells them that they are perfect, unique and special, and that it's society that needs to change in order to cater to them. Completely takes away the need for self improvement and growth, makes real victims within minority groups go unheard, and the lack of boundaries and consistency allows so many loopholes to be abused.
Trans people are here to stay, aren't going anywhere and deserve the same basic human rights as everyone else, but when it's gets to the point where a rapist can change his gender to get put into a female prison where he continues to abuse due to the loopholes, baselines have to be established.