How do you do stop jerking off to your crush at work?
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I didn't stalk anyone? I thought u guys were taking the piss but maybe you're actually serious.
To clarify certain points:
- I went to the park because I felt like it, I don't think I went there more than like 6 times in a whole year? And yes I would have liked she shown up. So perhaps we could get to talk and go from there... so what? many times she was there and I didn't go to that park? If I saw her there it's not because "I'm stalking" the park was literally next to my house... when you come in and out you can see who is there, you can so see who is there if you are in your balcony, in your room, in the building stairs... and also the other way around you can see people from the park. it's not like I'm going out of my way to register her moves.
- Delivery dropped my package in her house but so what? It didn't even have anything to do with me. Sometimes I receive someone else's packages.Big deal. I never put her adress or something, and wouldn't do it even if I joked about it in some of the comments.
Lastly she was the one who initated contact 85% of the times we saw each other randomly. I literally stated that I was ignoring her and being rude at first. So well, something is true and it's that unfortunately I did not have the skills to see if this could go further. I paid for it because I was sad when I left. I am not sure what you folks are on about.
To clarify certain points:
- I went to the park because I felt like it, I don't think I went there more than like 6 times in a whole year? And yes I would have liked she shown up. So perhaps we could get to talk and go from there... so what? many times she was there and I didn't go to that park? If I saw her there it's not because "I'm stalking" the park was literally next to my house... when you come in and out you can see who is there, you can so see who is there if you are in your balcony, in your room, in the building stairs... and also the other way around you can see people from the park. it's not like I'm going out of my way to register her moves.
- Delivery dropped my package in her house but so what? It didn't even have anything to do with me. Sometimes I receive someone else's packages.Big deal. I never put her adress or something, and wouldn't do it even if I joked about it in some of the comments.
Lastly she was the one who initated contact 85% of the times we saw each other randomly. I literally stated that I was ignoring her and being rude at first. So well, something is true and it's that unfortunately I did not have the skills to see if this could go further. I paid for it because I was sad when I left. I am not sure what you folks are on about.
Well fair enough, that post did look weird. I admit I did that but it was to show a friend who asked me because I talked about this girl to multiple friends and they were curious. I didn't even save that video. And I didn't do anything with it.
The rest of the things I have clarified already.
Well I would need to see the post. I don't think I said it because many times she was there and I didn't go... even is she would talk to me I'd just wave and go my way.
And I didn't order anything intentionally. It was dropped at her house because I wasn't in mine, that's it. I did joke about doing that process again though.
This thread is going to hunt me till I die
It's over. New account! But I mean I never had any malicious intent. I did sound nuts throughout this post but oh well...
The rest of the things I have clarified already.
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Well I would need to see the post. I don't think I said it because many times she was there and I didn't go... even is she would talk to me I'd just wave and go my way.
And I didn't order anything intentionally. It was dropped at her house because I wasn't in mine, that's it. I did joke about doing that process again though.
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This thread is going to hunt me till I die
It's over. New account! But I mean I never had any malicious intent. I did sound nuts throughout this post but oh well...
Technically you're supposed to see some signs beforehand. It wasn't my scenario but if I liked someone at work and you're interacting you should be able to tell if you have a chance or not. Imo depending on your age, assuming that most of us are young, it shouldn't be off limits for people from work to hang out if they get along in non romantical way. After that you could consider leaving your job and try something together...
It would be really awkward to work in the same place if you ask her and she says no, as @sanjikun said if it's in a profesional like building forget about it, the moment she says no it will be awkward in such a place might well say bye bye to your job there
Depends where you work, anyway my two shitty cents on this topic and let it die out
Depends where you work, anyway my two shitty cents on this topic and let it die out
