I like how to defend Kaido you have to use whataboutism. His narrative makes so little sense you have to talk about Akainu, because his character doesn´t make sense. Also, he does the same thing, lmfao

Yes, Kaido cares for his important members but the story showed lots of times how ruthless he is to his enemies and even to innocent people because he justifies his evil doings by saying they're just too weak. Remember what he planned to do with this country after he would have killed Luffy and Co? Enslaving everyone, even mothers and children to let them work till death.
Kaido is definitely a cruel villain. He's evil and I think that's why he wasn't awakened because in order to get Zoan awakening, your mind has to have a good chemistry to the DF and I believe Kaido's fruit is more peaceful mannered rather than being evil.